Okay, well I've been hanging around my other friends who have longer hair and I started having my own unique style too, and I've noticed you can get more girls to open or show that they are interested in you. I've got comments saying I have nice hair, your cute etc... Get asian / scene / long / unique hair! Grow your hair out and go to the salon. Get it thinned and layered, and dye your hair if you want too! Highlights, blonde, brunette, dark black etc... A lot of girls love this style on guys. Its like naturally peacocking lol.
