great example of the whole cat-string theory idea, girls are similar to cats in that they tend to want or give higher value to things that are scarce to them or they see as a challenge ... by showing little interest in her up to this point you've generated a certain amount of interest from her so you have to maintain that interest as well as that feeling in her that you are somewhat hard to obtain and you'll be fine
i'd do this by yes throwing negs back at her occasionally but not every single time the neg in and of itself can sometimes be an IOI in my opinion and it sounds like this girl uses them herself as IOI's so you neging too much back might indicate to you her that your interested/noticed her and you don't want her to think that ALL the time just enough so that she doesn't give up hope for obtaining you, keep it fun and playful obviously as though you have no real intention of sleeping with her right away so as to break down her walls/bitch shield/ guard/ whatever you wanna call it and before you know it she'll be giving much more non-suttle, obvious IOI's and then i would progress the relationship along, escalate kino, generate interesting conversation, and eventually return her IOI's after she's comfortable enough around you
just some ideas from my point of view im relatively new to al this too and i dont know this girl personally like you so you should obviously trust your instinct in terms of what to say and when to say it, just relax and have fun with it that will attract her just as much as any neg would
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