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Author:  markinthedark [ Sat Jul 04, 2009 12:18 am ]
Post subject:  Rookie mistakes, need help!!!!

Hey there,

I'm a 26 year old dude who gets laid a lot for an afc. Always thought of myself as kind of a player and i've got a reputation for banging a lot of chicks. That was untill i came across the pua. Now i realize i was a total amateur.

Anyway, tonight i walked up to an 8 in a club in poznan(poland, I am dutch so i speak english here) She's dancing and i tell her 'you should really take some dancing lessons' as i walked by her. Went to the bar, got a pepsi(learned not to drink!) and walked back to her to ask if she even spoke english. She grabbed my arm and told me that she lived in ireland for 3 years so she spoke english.
Took her to the bar to ask her opinion about my friends girlfriend who was cheating on him. I totally agreed to whatever she answered.
I asked her to intruduce me to her friends, she did, but they didnt speak english, so i couldnt entertain the whole group.(this is a problem i'm going to have to deal with somehow as i plan to stay here because the chicks are smokin hot!)
Did didnt matter to her though as she kept talking to me with her hands on me(here i shouldve said hands of the merchandise or something but didnt because i liked her touch, stupid!!)
As we contineud she played with her hair the whole, touched me a lot, i felt her breasts against me... etc.
I asked her what she did and she told me she just got her masters n something. I told her than that i came to poland for a company that makes flash games because i am an artist and i make animations for them(she didnt ask what i did, could this have been a mistake? i dont think it sounded like bragging)
she told me she had to leave soon, i asked 'so what can we do to contineu this conversation?' she answered that she was wih somebody so that it wouldnt be a good idea for us to meat each other. :-/ She was still very touchy though, nothing really changed in her behavior towards me. I acted like it was no big deal and i said that it was very nice to have met her. I walked away.

What went wrong? maybe i didmnt dhv her enaugh? should i have gone into my routine about the time i turned down a model for being to dumb?(yeah, probably)

Any tips r welcome!

Author:  eskwire [ Sat Jul 04, 2009 5:14 am ]
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Sounds like her buying temperature was pretty high that night. You should have tried to pull her home that night before she ejected from you.

You could have isolated by pulling her to the dance floor, then suggest that the two of you go to another bar or back to your place if it was practical (for a movie, or to see your really awesome stuffed animal collection, whatever).

It seems that once she got back to her friends you had to isolate her again and quickly. You ran out of time.

Of course, maybe she just wanted to flirt at the bar and had no intentions of taking anyone home that night - but it doesn't sound like it.

Author:  markinthedark [ Sat Jul 04, 2009 7:46 am ]
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well, polish girls have a ver high asd(when in their hometown, not on holidays or whatever, then they're practically prostitutes) so i wasnt planning on taking her home that night but i shouldve at least numberclosed her.

It was weird because i didnt realy reach a hook point, she was in to me from the beginning but stayed on the same level of interest, that was how i experienced it.
I need to learn to think on my feet i guess.

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