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| Author: | T-Bag [ Mon Jun 29, 2009 11:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | hook up with the ex? or continue to play the game? |
ok so here's where i'm stuck. i've been getting back into the game. been reading alot of PU material. my game is pretty good. i enjoy going out and picking up on women. it gives me a huge ego boost and i feel great most of the time. i got out of a relationship with an LA10 about 7 weeks ago. i let it go and started sarging. i've been seeing a few girls. F-Closed a few. have 1 as a FWB SPAM. now my ex is calling and wants to get back together. she's an LA10. doube D's, small waist, perfect ass. the sex is best i've ever had. she's very responsive, has multiple orgasms, and extremely affectionate. she cooks, cleans, is genuinely a good girl (marriage material). before we broke up i considered having kids and marrying this woman. i'm 25, she's 31. we broke up honestly bc i was acting out on a video game addiction that i've given up. i would play warcraft 24/7. after the breakup i let it go as well. i quit smoking for about 4 weeks(which also caused problems between us). we lived together. i came home one day to find all my stuff packed up next to the door. the video game addiction caused me to be unresponsive in the relationship. i didn't answer phone calls, made up lies about what i was doing, stay out and play at friends houses. it was pretty bad. [true story] i love her to death but there are still things that i do not like. she's very critical, talks shit about my job(understandable). i work as a security officer and she wants me to do more. if i'm being lazy she'll ask why i didn't go out and do anything during the day. also she wants me to pay for everything. right now i'm taking home about 2500 a month which in LA is not alot. i'm in CC debt and it's hard for me to save money and pay for all her shit at the same time. OPTION 1: Get Back With the Ex i ended up sleeping with her friday night. the sex was AWESOME. since then she's been calling and texting everyday. she wants to get back together. she wants to meet again tonight to F. i haven't given her any kind of commitment yet. but i'm pretty sure she's going to bring it up tonight. i love her family they're great people. we saw each other for about a year and lived together for 4 of those months. we got very close, very fast. she has a great dog and i love the little guy to death. OPTION 2: Leave her alone i don't believe i can lock her in as a FWB. she's not that kind of girl. she was single and celibate for a year before i met her. i enjoy being single and picking up women. these past few weeks that i've been single have been the most fun i've had in a long time. i look forward to meeting new women and i'm just recently polishing my techniques. i had some game before i started reading PU material but in the last few weeks my game has increased by 10x what is was before. --------------- i have two cell phones so i could use one for the ex and one for the hook up. but i'm not willing to do that. if i commit then i'm committed. cheating isn't an option. i've inventoried, done pros and cons lists, and nothing i can think of gives me any clear cut answers about what i should do. pls, any help or insight would be appreciated. |
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| Author: | hollywoodd [ Tue Jun 30, 2009 12:43 am ] |
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honestly man..this is something that no1 but YOU can decide none of us are going to go through the good and the bad outcomes of that situation i mean i know its cool to get opinions and whatnot but this decision will pretty much be for the rest of ur life, u may get another chance to choose again but this is definately something you need to think of urself if u enjoy being young and single and picking up on women, more than being with one girl. then u need to make that decision.. it definately seems like a hard one to make tho. u gotta do what u feel. think hard about it man. every guy is different, there will be more than half the guys on here to tell u to keep hooking up cuz they think thats wut this is for. and the other bit of guys will tell you the same thing i did. good luck on the decision man |
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| Author: | Myth [ Sun Jul 05, 2009 12:40 pm ] |
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I choose C.... BOTH Hangout with her, date whatever. Just not exclusively. She may not go for, but its worth the risk. Dont give up on gaming! |
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