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| Author: | 6Stars [ Sun Jun 28, 2009 7:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Using escalation to close, no response, but no "no" |
hey guys, Me: was the hyperactive/ funny guy in high school, never had a girlfriend until i hooked up with a cheerleader(relationship eventually tore her and two other friends apart...one of them was in love with me.) 1st summer back from college my dad had picked up "The Game," read it -loved it. 3 years later, here I am on a kick to improve myself(in as many aspects as possible), including my game. My advantages: confident. decent looking. Starting to get into shape(but far from fat). People person, can keep a conversation going. Been in the "girl circle" several times because I was a non-threatening male. Good actor, and love making people laugh. Pretty good at analyzing body language and social/psychological behavior. disadvantages: 1. live with mother & brother. 2. no car sticking point: closing. Situation: Been hanging out with 2 female co-workers and some friends of hers over the past few days. 1st night together there were two girls who were interested in me and I sarged them. However, it was a small gathering and I found myself torn. 1 girl was basically throwing herself at me. The other cuter one(that i've wanted to hook up with for a while) was giving me IOI's but not as obvious(she recently broke up with her long-time BF). Got both their numbers first night. Girls called me up again last night. we hit up a party. on the drive their I sat in the back between my co-worker and the cuter girl from the night before. we were drinking wine, and passing it back and forth. got a good rapport going. then decided to escalate; put a hand on her knee, no reaction from her, but she doesn't try to move. i start to stroke her leg. same thing. the car hits a bump, my hand goes off her leg. I pull back. nothing from her. we're still drinking though, and she's not giving me the "fuck off" vibe. after the party. We drive home, similar situation. i started with the leg again, but eventually put my arm around her. No response, but eventually she gets tired and buries her head into my shoulder and sleeps for the rest of the drive. @ the after party she separates herself, but eventually sits with me and the other girl(who obviously wants me) on this couch. I pull back, and i'm tired so i close my eyes. we leave/say goodnight. my take: I think she's still kind of weirded out by the long-term relationship ending and doesn't feel right reciprocating outside affection. ...but she's only in town for another week, and i need to close fast. What do I do? |
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| Author: | minsok [ Sun Jun 28, 2009 11:16 am ] |
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Make excuses to smell her, stroke the tips of her hair, put your body in close proximity to hers, pay more attention to body language, she must have done something when you put your hand on her leg, looked at you, gave a half-hearted smile, something, unless she was totally out of it. Look for eye contact and if you can hold it for 3 seconds in silence, go in for a kiss. If it's not obvious what the body language means, assume it means she likes you. If you still can't figure it out, push until she resists. At least that way you will know, instead of letting the doubt crush you after she's gone. That's what I'd do, anyway. |
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