Hey guys I'm badly in need of some advice.
I started talking to this chick ( lets call her jane for the sake of a name - not her real name - ) on a dating website 3 weeks ago, we chatted online over msn for a couple of weeks. I was keeping it real low key and not "pushing" to meet - I had the mindset of "Im having so much fun flirting with you on msn, that i don't care if we meet or not" after a week of this she was hinting to meet up and after two weeks SHE ASKED ME to meet up! lol after teasing her a bit more about not being sure we should meet up etc, i met her... JUST before i met her for the first time she told me that she had just started seeing this guy that she met on the internet about a month before she was talking to me so she just wanted to meet for a drink and wasn't after sex... I reasured her that I wasn't after sex either and I didn't see anything wrong with just meeting up for a drink.
So we met for a drink.. I started out feeling flat as was the end of a crap week at work for me and I wasn't feeling too confident in myself, plus I have never had much luck with internet meetings in the past... my head was running with negitive thoughts. Fortunately I managed to block them out a bit which was made eaiser with the alcohol and the fact that jane had a bubbly, friendly disposition... I relaxed a bit and started some NLP techniques that i have been learning more specifically imitating body posture and position to build Rapport then i moved on to "intentional unintentional" touching... kino as its often called.
Now Jane is a massage therapist and is used to being touched and touching which obviously was a fact that I played on after two hours and a couple of bars later she was asking to come back to my house
... we had sex and she stayed the night.The next night we met again she came around to my house and watched some youtube videos and listened to some music. She told me that she likes me.. and that she had told her boyfriend about sleeping with me. *** Now this is the weird part *** her boyfriend instead of dumping her asked Jane to keep seeing her. Jane admited to me that she doesn't really like her boyfriend but he treats her well... he sounds like a push over to me... Jane keeps txting me and I have seen Jane a few more times but we agreed no sex (to be honest i think i could probably have sex with Jane if i tried - but choose not to as she has a boyfriend ) also I have Jane on my Facebook and she has alot of male friends... hmm
*** I am coming to the realisation that Jane is a female PUA!! lol ***
I want to keep my emotions distant from her, but it is fun to keep seeing her. I would never let myself form a relationship with Jane for risk that she would cheat on me like she has done to her boyfriend -with me- and whoever the fuck else!!! I went out with her another time and i left her a couple of times to go to the toilet and both times she had different guys hitting on her -buying her drinks- or -dancing with her!- and she was flirting back no regard to the fact i was with her.
She is fun to be around though, and i can practice my game with her... I found myself thinking of her this morning.. no no no not good..
How should I handle a female PUA?