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| Author: | jdaniels1234 [ Mon Jun 22, 2009 2:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | following a HB - yes or no? |
ok so I relatively new to pua and need some advice.. On 2 seperate occastions last night, within a few minutes of opening the HB asked me to go to the dancefloor / follow them. Should I follow losing the dominate frame / pursuade her to stay or just let her go? Woman 1 HB7 approaches me and asks me to save her from this guy... She grabs me by the shirt and tries to bring me toward the dance floor. ( I was opening her friend at the time who wasn't being responsive ) Woman 2 A HB8.5 and HB6 are walking past as I'm chatting to a friend. Me to HB8.5: "Hey..... your cute, gimme a hug." HB8.5: laughs and obliges, giving hug.. After a quick introduction she calls her friend back ( friend was making her way to dance floor.) and introduces me to her also. She then says "we going to the dance floor, come with us" and off they go. I guess it's ok to follow but I'd prefer if they were following me rater than vice versa. Any advice here? Any would be appreciated. |
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| Author: | Antithesis [ Mon Jun 22, 2009 2:22 am ] |
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I think it would be okay if you make it contingent on her doing something for you first. "Sure I'll follow you, but first you have to...." 1. Buy me a drink 2. Give me a kiss (depending on how much rapport you've built) 3. Answer a question It's okay to jump through their hoops so long as you are making them jump through your hoops first.  ~Antithesis |
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| Author: | TheJ [ Mon Jun 22, 2009 5:41 pm ] |
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I think Antithesis is right. I think, and this may be wrong, but if she won't comply to your hoop I would be tempted to go with her still. At this point it would not be necessarly to win her more then building social proof. If you are seen dancing with a 8.5 it can only be good for your social value. Make sure you break the rapport first after that. |
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| Author: | Wolfus [ Mon Jun 22, 2009 6:22 pm ] |
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Basically do what you feel like. Either case it's hazy at best. But remember, every action doesn't have to be a DHV. If you want to dance follow them, then DHV on the dance floor. If not say you want to chat to some more folk first & you might give them a dance later if they're lucky Just keep it chill & you can't go wrong. In terms of technical step by step game though, the second jumped through your hoop for the hug, so rewarding her with a dance is certainly not out of the question. Also she was so into you Take it easy, Wolfus. |
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