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| Author: | Ace&Face [ Fri Jun 19, 2009 10:23 pm ] |
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Right here's the deal, what happens next? I walk up to an HB during the day, i open with 'X' opener. Say i use an opener like 'i've had this song stuck in my head all day, could you tell me what it is?' she replies, 'yeah it's such and such' cool. but then what? i've no idea how to progress it from there, like none and i know if i do it in real life i'll just freeze and look like a total idiot. the same question applies to night game, once i've opened a set i don't know where to take it, i know i'm meant to multiple thread stories etc but not sure how to do that. any help appreciated. |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Fri Jun 19, 2009 10:41 pm ] |
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Start a conversation. If you can't start one out of the blue then use the opener as a lead off to a conversation. |
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| Author: | RVAIS [ Fri Jun 19, 2009 11:40 pm ] |
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In noo way am I an expert but heres a little blue print -introduce yourself/ get her name -look for IOI's -keep the conversation going/DHV -maintain proper posture/eye contact/body language/spacing -be properly dominant -push pull/neg (if needed) -kino escalate -# close |
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| Author: | Ace&Face [ Sat Jun 20, 2009 4:24 am ] |
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cheers for the input guys. the thing is i'm scared of geting stuck at the conversational point directly after the opener, currently i'm writing a bunch of stuff down though so i can have some canned stuff to fall back on. this is how i perceive things going: me:opener set:chit chat then oh shit...freeze, what next? 3,2,1....blown it it's ridiculous it's like i'm getting AAA lol, anxiety of the anxiety of the approach |
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