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| Author: | onemosphere [ Fri Jun 19, 2009 8:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Now that what i call a STICKY situation |
so i havent really ran into a scenario like this till now. me and a few mates run out and hit up a few pubs on wednesday and we roll around to the last one pretty late. sitting at the bar having a good time, some people i vaguely know walk in- an old neighbour of mine, a guy who he's friends with that i also sorta know, and 2 girls who work at the studio where i get my hair cut; one an older cougar, and the other a 22 year old that graduated with my brother who just so happened to cut my hair once. i say hi to the guys as they walk in and the old cougar jokes about flatters me about how i always keep my lacoste kicks so white. im pretty trashed and i can tell theyve had a few to drink as well. the other chick comes up to me and really gets in my personal space and kino's the shit out of my while im just sitting there, (ie, grabbing my hands and all that and putting them around her for me). and keeps insisting i let her cut my hair for once, and that i should put her number in my phone, telling me im hot, and that when her rents leave in a couple of weeks we should party at her place all being said a number of times each. i literally have pulled no game on her till the end of the night and shes already down to fuck as if it wasnt obvious enough. however thats not my problem. its just the age thing. she said 'fuck i cant believe youre only 18' and i played it cool by replying 'age is only a number' and lines like that. but shes sorta right. shes a definate cutie, and i am actually intimidated by her just based on things like sexual experience and all that. also, i dont know when we'd hang cause i dont know of anyone she chills with and i dont think she'd be up for hanging with all 18 year old kids. i dont really have a specific question here but what should i do? i just got out of a relationship, and im stoked about all this (all my mates are very impressed haha) but i cant help a weird awkward feeling of control in this. any suggestions boys? cheers guys |
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| Author: | crazy9 [ Fri Jun 19, 2009 10:20 am ] |
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go for it |
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| Author: | antic [ Fri Jun 19, 2009 10:23 am ] |
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Should have lied about your age, but since you've been there for a haircut they probably already knew your 18 right. Back in my AFC days I got really attached to this one hairdressor because she showed so much interest whenever I went for a haircut. I asked her out and got shot down. Your case is different. I wouldn't say that she was playing with you because the truth always comes out when girls are pissed. If you have her number, maybe send her a funny text. |
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| Author: | onemosphere [ Fri Jun 19, 2009 5:54 pm ] |
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she recognized my last name, and when i asked her to guess how old i was she said 26 (which is odd cause usually everyone says 21ish) i suppose im just somewhat nervous on all this. i mean i know shes in the bag already from the sounds of things, but im dealing with a whole other type that im not used to because of experience and the difference in age. im pretty sure she wouldnt be thrilled to come to a party with people 4-5 years younger than her, so should i just plan another night out at one of the pubs and tell her she can join us if she wants? |
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| Author: | antic [ Fri Jun 19, 2009 11:39 pm ] |
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The age difference shouldn't really matter too much if she's into you. But yeah maybe just invite her out to the pub to begin with. |
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| Author: | autostyle [ Fri Jun 19, 2009 11:57 pm ] |
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wtf are you waiting for fool. hit that shit |
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| Author: | onemosphere [ Sun Jun 21, 2009 7:21 am ] |
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so update- i briefly through her a text the other night just asking how she was doing, and she could come down town for a bday bash if she was up for it. she works a lot so i wasnt surprised when she said she couldnt make it or w/e. anywho the texts didnt go half bad but she seemed a lot more subtle this time (obviously cause she wasnt drunk). since the attempt didnt go over too well to get her to come out, i dont wanna seem all needy and naggin her to come party with me on some random night. how should i continue this? i was thinking just keep quiet and schedual to get my hair done by her (which i need to get done soon and she was gaggin for me to let her do it that night) and just spark up the convo there about things, and shes taking a lot of interest about my trip to asia since shes off on her own soon and is dying to talk about it all. so i still feel a little intimidated asking her out though. just fluff her while she cuts my hair and end it with a 'lets figure out a good time to party together' line? |
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| Author: | Rye Lee [ Sun Jun 21, 2009 10:51 pm ] |
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Ok, so lying about your age is silly even if you had the opportunity to do so; be proud of who you are and happy with whatever your circumstances are. Since you she knows how old you are though, that isn't a factor. Basically what you want to do is say, "Hey, let's get together and...." or "Let's go...." or if you're doing something that you think she'd be interested in doing, then say, "Hey, I'm....you should come along". The trick is not to make a big deal out of it and not to think about it as a "date". Just figure out something that would be entertaining for someone her age and then do it with her. You don't have to take her on a tour of a winery or to a cheese tasting for fuck's sake, if she's 22, then she's not gonna be THAT different than you! I bet she'd be cool with having a few drinks and playing some video games, or playing some drinking games with you and some friends (note, mario kart and smash bros both make excellent drinking games and there's a lot of opportunities for playful kino by nudging or tickling to distract each other). |
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| Author: | minsok [ Wed Jun 24, 2009 7:35 pm ] |
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I just went on a date with a 22 year old virgin that acted like she was 15. As long as you believe you're a worthwhile guy, you got it in the bag. Also, don't see her at work, that's a step backward. If she wants to cut your hair, let her do it at her place free of charge. |
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| Author: | Absalon [ Wed Jun 24, 2009 8:45 pm ] |
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Minsok is onto something. Get her to do it for free at her place. Also, make it seem like you are finally letting her cut your hair - not like she is doing you a favor. |
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