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Author:  crazy9 [ Wed Jun 17, 2009 7:05 am ]
Post subject:  HB goin on a 1month holiday in a week, ask out now or after?
As the title says, HB is going on a 1 month holiday in europe in a weeks time, should i ask her out now, then have some sort of weird early relationship thing, or wait till she comes back? If i do that, how can i keep her thinking about me while she's over there?
Author:  kcdclan [ Wed Jun 17, 2009 7:32 am ]
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You should not be thinkin about it.... when you think you wanna go out with her just do it...
Author:  Jezebel [ Wed Jun 17, 2009 4:51 pm ]
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If you haven’t given her enough material to think of by now, then…better ask her now.
Waiting in my opinion is NEVER a good strategy.
I would sit down and think about the pluses and the minuses of both sides. What would you win if you don’t go out with her now? 1 month of waiting and guessing ‘What if?’, ‘Is she thinking of me?’, ‘Does she even remember me?’. If you ask her now…well there’s gonna be a lot of guessing too but at a different level. Kcdclan is right! If you wanna go out with her (which you obviously want), do it! Don’t give her time to forget about you…I don’t wanna scare you or anything but Europe is a jungle and there are a lot of horny men here…and girls like to have fun, right? So make her realize that what she has at home is the best on the market :)
Cheers
Jez
Author:  Jaybot [ Wed Jun 17, 2009 5:40 pm ]
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Ask her now she will jsut have to cheat on you IMO, dunno what type of holiday it is but yar do it after. If you are at a stage where you could ask her out and it would work a month will mean nothing. It may knock the relationship back a notch but it shouldn't destroy it and if it does she probably wasn't that into you anyway.

Also Europe you say, whereabouts? :P hehehe
Author:  Minuteman [ Wed Jun 17, 2009 5:55 pm ]
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As the title says, HB is going on a 1 month holiday in europe in a weeks time, should i ask her out now, then have some sort of weird early relationship thing, or wait till she comes back? If i do that, how can i keep her thinking about me while she's over there?
Ask her now! Seriously, the best way to keep her thinking about you while she's in Europe is to take her out before she leaves and just have a great time. Don't expect that you'll be in a relationship by the end of the week, but expect that the time you spend gaming her now could lead to regular dating in the future if you play your cards right.
Author:  crazy9 [ Thu Jun 18, 2009 3:59 am ]
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Well if it comes up, i'm going to ask her out.
She invited me out for dinner with her friends today, though her friends might bail because they have uni exams and she might call it off, if that happens, i figure i'll say something like, "you should take me out anyway". Make her try and take me out?

If not that, she's been doing a lot of favours for me recently, (just a thing we've got going it goes back and forth), but now she owes me, so i'll say something like, "you can take me out to a movie/dinner"

Any good?
Author:  crazy9 [ Thu Jun 18, 2009 12:55 pm ]
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klkl
Author:  Jaybot [ Thu Jun 18, 2009 1:07 pm ]
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Thats perfect, the advice I gave still stands as well :)
Author:  crazy9 [ Thu Jun 18, 2009 3:25 pm ]
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Thats perfect, the advice I gave still stands as well :)
what do you mean? that's perfect?
btw she's not going to the uk man :lol:
Author:  crazy9 [ Fri Jun 19, 2009 10:18 am ]
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well i'm going to try and kiss close this weekend before she leaves, hopefully that'll keep her thinking
Author:  LawlessGreed [ Fri Jun 19, 2009 4:09 pm ]
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She does end some texts with an X though, now maybe i'm reading into that a little too much but it seems like a sign to me.
I wouldn't read anything into it. Girls put x's in texts all the time...even when its not appropriate. Ive had texts from girls at work like "hey, meeting today at 12, need to discuss budget. xX".

And I've also had them from flakes: "yeah it was nice meeting you last night x". Then you never hear from them again.
Author:  Jaybot [ Fri Jun 19, 2009 8:39 pm ]
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yar its perfect because it sounds like you had a wicked time and even though you didn't get her going out with you etc you will have made an impression and it will be on when she gets back :)
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