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Author:  billypuddels [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 4:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Trun a Friend into a Girl friend? is it possible
Hey, guys

i have a problem, i got this friend shes really pretty but i didn't think of her as gf material intill quite recently, i was wondering if you guys could help me out by telling me specific ways i could go about going from friend to gf..i know its hard but i want to give it a try....anways specific examples would be great!

thanks, bill
Author:  Layout [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 6:10 pm ]
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don't go rushing off to try my idea's because i've always failed when i tried but.

First thing you need would be a bit of distance, and some tension
If you can get some tension in the relationship i think your more likely to be able to "show" another side of you. A BF side instead of the BFF side. very different lol
Author:  Billionaire [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 6:23 pm ]
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I heard it's easy to do with speed seduction, but virtually impossible otherwise. You implant sexual thoughts into her subconscious until she is driven to have sex with you. Then you're no longer just a friend :D I know of one highly experienced pua who still says he gets LJBF'd a lot even though he seems to do everything right. That's a good reason to learn SS, in my opinion. He doesn't know or use SS as far as I know.
Author:  Jav [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 7:28 pm ]
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This might help you. It came from the 'conquer your campus' newsletter by Mark Redman


"Yo..
Today, I want to write about something that a LOT of people
asked for more detail about - how to turn a friend into a
fuck buddy. I talk about it in my report but I guess I
didn't go into enough depth so here we go...

First let's talk about why you're in the friend
category. You're there because she wasn't attracted to
you, probably because you weren't direct enough. If you
read the report, you know how I feel about being direct
with college girls because generally, they want to hook up.

And, BEFORE I GO ANY FURTHER, let me say that what I've
taught my boys is more about being direct and NOT getting
into this situation into the first place.

But now that you're in the friend category, you can't
just "change" overnight. She already has an impression
of you and impressions like that are hard to shift. So what
I'm going to suggest here is a two to three week strategy,
but you can start implementing it tonight.

So you have to get out of that category, right? Well,
she's not going to believe that there's any substance
behind your actions if you just start acting differently
one day. So you need to come up with a reason that you're
going to change, and communicate it to her. I'm talking
big stuff in your life - you fail a class, you talk to God
for the first time, you meet an new mentor... something BIG
that is going to be a catalyst for your actions.

You tell her about this experience. Don't go into depth
on it or offer too many details, that is try-hard. You have
nothing to prove to anyone - it is a personal experience and
it has caused you to start thinking differently. So you
retreat from her for three to four days.

When you start hanging out again, something about your
lifestyle should be different. Adopt a new behavior that
demonstrates that you are serious about this. For example,
you can do something healthy like being a vegetarian or not
drinking for a week. You are in YOUR OWN REALITY where YOU
MAKE UP THE RULES.

Ok, so you have set the stage. This is the proverbial
cleansing of the pallate - the sniff of coffee beans
between wine tastings, the parsley between the appetizer
and the main course. When you start acting differently
towards her, there will be precedent.

NOW, three things that one of my mentors taught me.

1. Be desireless
2. Be awesome
3. Flirt

Be desireless: You should not communicate that you want her
or need her. Your life is not better because of her, it is
better because of you. You're having a good time,
you're on the right path, and you love yourself. DO NOT
give in to the urge to tell her how happy she makes you or
anything. You can show her appreciation, but it should be
from the perspective of "wow, good for you, I'm proud
of you for being that way" instead of "wow, you're so
incredible and I want to marry you."

Be awesome: Be absolutely great to everyone in your life.
Show her that you are treating everyone with the same
accord that you're giving her. Call your Mom, Dad or
Grandpa and tell them you love them. She should see that
you are a GREAT guy. She should SEE it, not HEAR it from
you. So call up Grandpa when you're with her and let her
see how awesome you are. Now I know this may seem like
pussy behavior but think about it - if you're a badass,
desireless guy AND you are gret to everyone around you,
well that my friend is to me a Leader of Men.

Flirt: This is kind of what I covered in my report. And
there is no contradiction here. You can be desireless but
still flirty. Think about how you'd react if a fatass 45
year old woman was flirting with you. You'd flirt back,
because there's no sexual interest on your part AND its
obvious she thinks you're cute so there's no risk of
being "rejected". So pretend that your friend is a
fatass 45 year old. Tease her. Tell her she looks
"soooooo hot." When she flirts back tell her that
you're going to call the campus police on her.

And for heaven's sake, kino like crazy. BUT... it should
be playful kino, not sexual kino. Playful kino is a knee
slap, a light shoulder punch, and playing "this little
piggy" with her fingers or doing the "got your nose"
game because she's cute. Sexual kino is having your hand
on her back and extended touching and rubbing.

(this is more sexual kino)

If you do this right over the course of a few weeks, she is
going to have a huge shift in her perception of you, and her
attraction to you is going to get a "reset." In fact,
you will hae probably created a "chase" dynamic where
she's pursuing you somewhat, and from there you can
basically be out at a party or a social event and just
start making out with her.

We could get more detailed about closing logistics, let me
know if you are unclear on that last part. It is fairly
straightforward though - girl likes you, you tell her
"let's make out", you make out. That's college
game. Escalate, sex, smack on the ass for being a bad girl,
call her the next day, don't call her for another two
days, see her out at a party and hook up again, and
that's that.

I've got some field reports that go into more depth on
this, and explain it explicitly. They ended up in my
Conquer Your Campus Training Manual. Which you can check
out here:

http://www.conqueryourcampus.com/home

Be back atcha soon with an AMAZING piece that you won't
want to miss...I'm serious! Just puting the finishing
touches on it now..

Let the good times roll,
Mark"
Author:  Don D. Flow [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 9:02 pm ]
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An amazing post by Jav, definitely something to look at there. 8)

Also, try and keep the mindset that she is not GF material. If you communicate that you don't need to be around her, you will get good results.
Author:  wiehan [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 9:41 pm ]
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Alright my friend, this is a part of pick up which must most probably be the hardest, and I hav a success story in this.. Im in an LTR right nw with a girl that has been a real gud friend of mine..
But back 2 u, u realized u developed feelings 4 her, and nw u want more than being friends.. Here is where most guys do horibly wrng.. They do what david de angelo say we must avoid, being a needy wuss, and by paying 4 stuf 4 her and by always being the friend who helps her with the daddy isues or wateva, by doing that ur just making the friend relationship stronger and going in the wrong direction with ur prospects of being a potential bf.. Here's what i did..

I totaly avoided my friend 4 around 2-3 weeks, we didnt hang owt anymore, didnt talk anymore, i broke comunication totaly.. Then afta that period of time, she came up 2 me and askd what hapend 2 me nd frm there i wasnt as gud a friend anymore in her eyes naturaly, bcoz of my time-out, nd i went straight to the attraction phase.. Quikly she caught on and i saw an imediate change in her attitude 2wards me.. Frm then when we were 2getha, i made her c me in the light of an potential bf and nt a best friend.. Thats ur best cue my friend.. Use the material that works best on picking up women to ur liking with ths girl aswel, it works on all girls.. Goodluck man..
Author:  mike. [ Wed Jun 17, 2009 6:48 am ]
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I suggest first thinking about if shes a friend you are willing to lose.

If you can honestly answer that then progress on.
Sometimes going for other girls and keeping an amazing friend is the best thing to do

BUT if your willing to increase the chance at losing her friendship but you really want to turn it into something more then by all means go for it!!!
There's plenty of ways to do it! I could give you some ways but there's already some GREAT tips that the guys here have offered





-hatch
Author:  billypuddels [ Thu Jun 18, 2009 4:57 am ]
Post subject:  Thanks everyone!
hey guys thanks for all of your help, it helped me out a ton on what i will try to do in the future...if any of u would want to add anything then by all means do,but i cant thank u guys enough for the help.


peace,bill
Author:  indianreaper [ Thu Jun 18, 2009 5:27 am ]
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who hasn't been in this situation... I know i have/am

Wiehan what kinda attraction phase stuff did you use to communicate your changed situation?
Author:  Billionaire [ Thu Jun 18, 2009 8:17 am ]
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Run a bunch of sexual arousal SS patterns on her. Try to do it as covertly as possible. Learn how to say patterns with the proper tonality, but not TOO different from how you normally talk. The Discovery Channel pattern is one you could use.
Author:  flybeta [ Fri Jun 19, 2009 2:06 am ]
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I'm in same boat i guess, I wanted try ignore her. She just texted me Hey darling how are you? What should I do, how am I an "awesome friend" with a pet name. What if she just got out of a long relationship and is putting all new guys in this zone.
Author:  wiehan [ Sat Jun 20, 2009 11:58 am ]
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Well because i cut off all communication with her and had her come to me, she basically opend and re initiated conversation and comunication with me.. she told me lata on, the thing that made her like me, was the freeze outs and the way i pretended nothing botherd me.. and then using negs on her and like i didnt make it obvious that i was intrested in her.. that made her curious bwt the real me, and when i saw those signs i moved to comfort stage.. hope it answerd ur question bud
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