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Is it a common tactic for PUAs to be unkind to other guys?
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Author:  BobCob [ Fri Jun 12, 2009 5:55 am ]
Post subject:  Is it a common tactic for PUAs to be unkind to other guys?
Even if the other guy is kind and friendly with the PUA? Let's say the setting is at a social event in which 10 girls and 3 guys attend. 2 of the 3 guys are friends and PUAs. They're uninterested and unkind to the third guy.
Author:  antic [ Fri Jun 12, 2009 6:44 am ]
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Nah man it doesn't work like that with pickup. The idea is to make friends with everyone and then stand out as alpha male of the group.

In this case you would make friends with the other guy and then start talking to his chick friends. We're not in the pickup game to make enemies or be unkind to anyone.
Author:  BobCob [ Fri Jun 12, 2009 7:19 am ]
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What if they do it as a way of disrespecting the other guy if he was the alphamale? So let's say there were two alpha males in the group (which won't last long I suppose). The one guy and the other two guys. With the other two guys, one of them is the wingman.

Any thoughts?
Author:  BobCob [ Fri Jun 12, 2009 7:27 am ]
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I have another question related to this post.

Can a PUA also be a gentleman?


If a PUA is a dick to other guys (when the women aren't around), does that usually suggest he's most likely a womanizer and not sincere?
Author:  Antithesis [ Fri Jun 12, 2009 8:03 am ]
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Again you have some grave misconceptions about what a pickup artist is. The idea is not to pick fights with other guys to be top dog alpha male. The idea is to be so nice and charming so everybody (guys and girls alike) think you're a cool guy and want to be in your company.

I think instead of making new threads of your own on the forum, your time would be better spent reading what other people have written and already asked. If you are here to learn like your initial introductory statement claimed, this forum is a great resource at your disposal. If however you are looking for quick answers to one-up the guy who "seduced" your girlfriend away, you will be sorely disappointed. :wink:

~Antithesis
Author:  [Vegas] [ Fri Jun 12, 2009 8:09 am ]
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Nah man it doesn't work like that with pickup. The idea is to make friends with everyone and then stand out as alpha male of the group.

In this case you would make friends with the other guy and then start talking to his chick friends. We're not in the pickup game to make enemies or be unkind to anyone.
That's the idea. There is no need to make enemies when picking up. Befriend all the guys in the group and then emerge as the leader - you are the alphamale, leader of men. Be cool with them. Not only is it social proof, but you never know who you will meet. I can say that I've befriended guys while in mixed sets and now I am decently good friends with them.
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If a PUA is a dick to other guys (when the women aren't around), does that usually suggest he's most likely a womanizer and not sincere?
I would say that it suggests he has some insecurities so he feels the need to put others down so he is one up from them. As far as that showing he is a womanizer/not sincere, I'm not too sure because I haven't been in that situation nor do I know anyone like that... if I had to guess, a guy who is a dick to his bros won't have many people liking him, so he may not have a chance to be a womanizer. He would probably lack good people skills, which would only hurt his game.
Author:  Jaybot [ Fri Jun 12, 2009 9:10 am ]
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Insecure guys are dicks to others, PUAs are not.

Let me go ahead and answer all of your threads in one, a PUA is just a sociable guy who is comfortable with himself and has a cool life. There is no magic techniques which they switch on. They are just chilled cool guys, thats the big secret. There is no game or technique or tricks, you become desirable women want you simple.
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