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Author:  Don D. Flow [ Thu Jun 11, 2009 4:39 am ]
Post subject:  Acting AFC & Still getting Attraction? WTF
Ment to post this in General Discussion, but I guess this forum will work. Don't have enough posts to create a thread in there. :lol:

Here is the situation.. a few months ago at my sisters party I encountered a HB 7.5 and a HB 5.5. I didn't even start talking to them, I was always off doing my own thing.. mostly making sure nothing was getting stolen and at the same time trying to have fun. Unfortunately I was really tired and didn't feel like "gaming any HB's that night".

I would say I made tons of mistakes and still got attraction which really confused / :shock: me. I was acting relaxed with my body language but would usually respond with AFC type responses or boring I would say. Even more confusing I was getting lOl's for example the HB 7.5 was asking lots of mundane type questions, the other HB was just being really outgoing. I was only somewhat interested in the HB 7.5 but made no kino attempts and focused on her (Bad idea I know) instead of focusing on the lower HB.

My only guess would be they were attracted to me because of my looks and relaxed body language. I contributed barely any leadership when THEY isolated me from the party (lOl) which was also a big mistake. Mainly because I went along with it so easily, probably one of the few times she kino'd me (to come along) and I didn't resist to tag along for the walk.

When the party was wrapping up, I had to help carry the HB 5.5 to their ride because she was super wasted. At the end the HB 7.5 gave me a "I want to hang out with you look". I told a girlfriend about the situation and that was her opinion.

I agree with her opinion but that look at the end really suprised me. I mean I did next to nothing to attract her and was acting AFC WTF? I would say there was a fair chance she was a party girl/slut :lol:

I'm over the situation, but still would like to solve it.

Any comments / thoughts? (If you took the time to read it) :roll:
Author:  KristallNachte [ Thu Jun 11, 2009 6:29 am ]
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low value females are a lot easier to attract
Author:  kcdclan [ Thu Jun 11, 2009 8:25 am ]
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Small-town girls or inexperienced girl are easy to get.
They don’t need a lot of pua applied.
You where acting as if you didn’t want her so, she wanted you.
If you would have done the onitis kinds of thing where you ask her a million questions and just go on and on about her putting her on a pedestal she probably would have backed off. If you where trying to be afc.
Author:  silverito [ Thu Jun 11, 2009 8:19 pm ]
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seriously wtf. You are surprused that you acted AFC and still got female interested in you? :shock: Do you want to say that 95%+ men who are AFC's do not attract any females? Only those who study PUA stuff attract females? :lol:
Author:  Don D. Flow [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 7:07 am ]
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seriously wtf. You are surprused that you acted AFC and still got female interested in you? :shock: Do you want to say that 95%+ men who are AFC's do not attract any females? Only those who study PUA stuff attract females? :lol:
Well yeah I was suprised, I am used to being on my game and having complete control and success. That night though I was just really tired and drunk buzzed, I wasn't really applying any "game" I was just being natural which suprised me. I wouldn't say this HB is lower value. She may be considered lower value than myself because I am older, but at the party she was fairly valued.

"You where acting as if you didn’t want her so, she wanted you."
Well put, I was very inattentive to her and her friend mostly because I was tired. It was interesting to see as I am usually alittle more attentive, but nice to see some different results.

I'm thinkin more like 25% of men don't attract any females. That is why escorts were invented, voiding everything you do. :lol: The fellas who study PUA stuff should attract more than their fair share of females, if they understand everything.
Author:  Jaybot [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 1:46 pm ]
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I think it was probably your body language etc and not give a fuck attitude. Although if you switched on game so to speak I think the incongruence would have changed things a lot.
Author:  forefit [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 2:35 pm ]
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Hey maybe your game has improved soooo much over time that even when you having a bad day you may not be as AFC as you though you were :-)
Author:  imnotghetto [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 7:50 pm ]
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This happened to me with a hb 7. i wasn't really attracted to her at first, she was really outgoing (i'm not as outgoing) and she openly stated she liked me blah blah. Still i wasn't interested. I kept shooting her down and acting like i didn't care cause i didn't. My guess is that she was getting more attracted because she couldn't have what she wanted. Eventually i hooked up with her, but it played out too long.
Working that kinda game naturally is easy, and maybe alcohol played a factor. Also hb8s and hb9s could do that as well but you might have to be really good looking with an "i don't care attitude"

Girls simply want what is not given to them.
Author:  Don D. Flow [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 8:56 pm ]
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I think it was probably your body language etc and not give a fuck attitude. Although if you switched on game so to speak I think the incongruence would have changed things a lot.
Thanks a lot for all of the positive advice/feedback. I plan on giving you last 3 posters a +2 rep when I can. I need to wait 30 minutes though to give it out.

Interesting thought Jay, it really would depend on how I acted switching on my "game". I would have kept close to the same inattentiveness but would have said things she wouldn't expect me to say. Which could be good or bad, all depends on how I delivered it. If I would have said things she wasn't expecting me to say, it is on the good side because it will show her I have the balls to say it. Wish I knew this prior to our interaction so I could experiment.. it's cool though I have an idea planned if I see her again. :)

Fore thanks for the positive post, your right I probably wasn't acting AFC but I would say more on the boring side with an "I dont care attitude". Which I would say got me neutral & slightly positive results.

Ghetto my situation was slightly different. I was attracted to her from the beginning, I knew she was the hottest HB at the party. But I never approached her, which I wish I would have. But it's ok I got an lOl and she and her friend isolated me from the party. She also didn't tell me she directly liked me, just gave me body language signs (It accounts for a very big part in communicating).
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