I was reading one of the posts on here that was talking about how getting girls is different for attractive vs. non-attractive guys and it got me thinking. I'm no ladies man (however, by the end of Summer I guarantee you I will be
but I have NEVER had problems attracting girls. NEVER. You know those AFC's who sit there either looking or thinking about getting with the hot girl next to him? Yea, that's me (I'm a notch better than that though) except (seriously God must love me) the girl will either start talking to me and ask for my number or start flirting with me, tell her friends that I'm cute knowing they will tell me etc. (and honestly ALL those times I either had an outbreak of acne or was wearing clothes that I just threw on so I wasn't really expecting anything.....my self-esteem isn't the greatest). My question is, how would I go about fully utilizing my pickup skills with the fact that I'm attractive? I believe I'm way too focused on physical appearance (I'm on accutane, working out, changing up my style, etc.) which I realize isn't the problem for me (although looking hotter is always a plus). All these routines, lines, etc. are worthless to me because I can't use them......what i mean is neg hits, cocky/funny etc. are all naturally embedded in me I just need a way to amplify them. I've been trying to hard to use indirect game which hasn't been working because I'm a direct kind of person (and girls start going wtf why doesn't he just make a move)
How would I go about this?