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Author:  Magic-J [ Sat Jun 06, 2009 11:52 pm ]
Post subject:  IOIs

K basically, I'm new in the pua society and my biggest problem is picking up IOIs from girls.

Can anyone give me a list of them?

Author:  FluffyG [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 2:06 am ]
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• She reinitiates conversation when you stop talking.
• She giggles.
• She touches you.
• She tries to get rapport and build comfort with you.


• She looks back and glances at you repeatedly every minute or so.
• She tosses her hair (to see if you will look).
• If eye contact happens from a distance, she holds it for a second.
• She smiles at you.
• She stands nearby (proximity).
• She interrupts your conversation from nearby or laughs at
something you said.
• While walking by, she turns her body toward you or brushes
against you.
• She says something to her friend and they both giggle.
• She asks you for a light or the time or in any way initiates a
conversation.
• While you're talking to her group, she is particularly talkative
(to get your attention).
• She asks you for your name.
• She asks you your age. (Make her guess.)
• She compliments you.
• She is playful and tries to challenge you.
• She's disagreeing but laughing.
• She's punching your arm but laughing.
• She uses nicknames for you.
• She plays with her hair while talking to you.
• When she is sitting next to you her leg touches yours.
• She repeatedly touches you in any way.
• She asks if you have a girlfriend.
• She mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you actually
have one.
• When she has to go to the bathroom, she comes back.
• She holds eye contact for longer periods of time when she
speaks with you.
• She avoids mentioning her boyfriend.
• If it comes up that you like something, she mentions that she
likes it, too, or needs someone to show her how to do it.
• When she says or does something, she looks at you to see your
reaction.
• She looks at you from the side, to hide the fact that she's looking.
• She introduces you to friends.
• She buys you a drink.
• She calls you a player or a heartbreaker.
• On her way put, she reapproaches to tell you that she is leaving.
(Get her number.)
• On your way out, she asks you where you are going. (Invite her.)
• She returns your calls.
• She invents reasons to be near you, interact with you, or have
isolation with you.



Things she avoids:
• Her friends go (to the bathroom or bar or dancing), but she
stays.
• She comes to see you and hangs with you for extended periods.
• If you move, she follows you or waits for you.
• She doesn't flinch or pull back if you happen to get too close.
• She doesn't resist when you escalate physically (or she gives token
resistance to avoid feeling like a slut).

Bolded once are the most important

Author:  Cock_roach [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 6:44 am ]
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Fluffy got a perfect job here, remember what he wrote.

And buy a book about body language, especially good ones are rom ilustrations. There's plenty of them to choose from.

Author:  Jaybot [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 6:38 pm ]
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By all means when starting out read lists but don't rely on them. It is always worth trusting your gut instinct, that gut instinct has been getting guys laid for a long while before lists where drawn up

Author:  Magic-J [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 8:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Thanks

All the replies have been great help. thanks a lot :)

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