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| Author: | Magic-J [ Sat Jun 06, 2009 11:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | IOIs |
K basically, I'm new in the pua society and my biggest problem is picking up IOIs from girls. Can anyone give me a list of them? |
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| Author: | FluffyG [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 2:06 am ] |
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• She reinitiates conversation when you stop talking. • She giggles. • She touches you. • She tries to get rapport and build comfort with you. • She looks back and glances at you repeatedly every minute or so. • She tosses her hair (to see if you will look). • If eye contact happens from a distance, she holds it for a second. • She smiles at you. • She stands nearby (proximity). • She interrupts your conversation from nearby or laughs at something you said. • While walking by, she turns her body toward you or brushes against you. • She says something to her friend and they both giggle. • She asks you for a light or the time or in any way initiates a conversation. • While you're talking to her group, she is particularly talkative (to get your attention). • She asks you for your name. • She asks you your age. (Make her guess.) • She compliments you. • She is playful and tries to challenge you. • She's disagreeing but laughing. • She's punching your arm but laughing. • She uses nicknames for you. • She plays with her hair while talking to you. • When she is sitting next to you her leg touches yours. • She repeatedly touches you in any way. • She asks if you have a girlfriend. • She mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you actually have one. • When she has to go to the bathroom, she comes back. • She holds eye contact for longer periods of time when she speaks with you. • She avoids mentioning her boyfriend. • If it comes up that you like something, she mentions that she likes it, too, or needs someone to show her how to do it. • When she says or does something, she looks at you to see your reaction. • She looks at you from the side, to hide the fact that she's looking. • She introduces you to friends. • She buys you a drink. • She calls you a player or a heartbreaker. • On her way put, she reapproaches to tell you that she is leaving. (Get her number.) • On your way out, she asks you where you are going. (Invite her.) • She returns your calls. • She invents reasons to be near you, interact with you, or have isolation with you. Things she avoids: • Her friends go (to the bathroom or bar or dancing), but she stays. • She comes to see you and hangs with you for extended periods. • If you move, she follows you or waits for you. • She doesn't flinch or pull back if you happen to get too close. • She doesn't resist when you escalate physically (or she gives token resistance to avoid feeling like a slut). Bolded once are the most important |
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| Author: | Cock_roach [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 6:44 am ] |
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Fluffy got a perfect job here, remember what he wrote. And buy a book about body language, especially good ones are rom ilustrations. There's plenty of them to choose from. |
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 6:38 pm ] |
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By all means when starting out read lists but don't rely on them. It is always worth trusting your gut instinct, that gut instinct has been getting guys laid for a long while before lists where drawn up |
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| Author: | Magic-J [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 8:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Thanks |
All the replies have been great help. thanks a lot |
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