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| Author: | paladien [ Fri Jun 05, 2009 11:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I am the Outsider |
hey everyone almost every time i am in a situation with people I am the outsider I am the guy who tries to make a joke and nobody laughs or looks away I am the guy who everybody thinks that he wont manage, like at a sports game (ice hockey) I made a goal and others were like "omg he made a goal, I thought he would miss" like nobody expected me to score. Nobody expects me to win I could call myself a Screw Up Artist and it would fit others perception of me I am also daydreaming a lot, I think I have ADD I would really, REALLY like to be an insider. Or actually to be accepted and liked for who I am I dont know how, thats why I am asking for help. please help me. |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Sat Jun 06, 2009 3:05 am ] |
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First off work on your inner game as your lack of confidence is lacking a lot. Secondly find things that you are good at or at least into and can do as a hobby. Because it sounds like you haven't found who you are yet as a person. Thirdly work on your social skills. Talk to random people in public and just make chit chat with them. And pick up on how they communicate and what have you. |
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