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Author:  vat_fagina [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 10:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Sex On A Plate And I Messed It Up!
I've never had sex on the first date!

So basically I met this girl at a bar..We hit it off..

Arranged to meet up and we did the following week..

Went to get something to eat, she was drinking wine and was tipsy by the end of the night..We talked about some sexual fantasies and other shit

I drove her back to hers to drop her home...She asks me on the way why I was taking her home so I turned the car around looking for a place to park...

I parked up in a quiet place but she wasn't very comfortable with it...So I found another place and we made out..

She backed out from going in the back of my car but I could've persuaded her...But I dunno, it was alittle strange for me coz I've never had sex on the first date..

So I text her today asking her to hook up...She says she's busy for a while..It felt like a total blow off..I told her to let me know when she's free...

My question is, how do I read the signs next time???

Do I attempt having sex with all girls on the 1st date from now on??

I messed up because I could've easily fucked her!
Author:  Jaybot [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 10:25 pm ]
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You should have taken her to your place and not tried it in a car but next time assume she wants to sleep with you whenever you meet her. Then even if she isn't into a lay she will let you know and you won't miss an opportunity.
Author:  vat_fagina [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 10:35 pm ]
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Lets assume I messed it up with her, time to move to the next girl...

Should I assume they want sex on the first date?

As in, should I get much more assertive?

It's strange tho but I still feel sex on the 2nd or 3rd date is better because the attraction only gets stronger through follow up calls and texts
Author:  Jaybot [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 10:44 pm ]
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I think that depends personally I have problems keeping the momentum and level of attraction for long periods of time via text, tends to get a bit chatty. So I always go for one night stands. Also you don't have to be assertive it is more kinda facilitating the inevitable. So you will need somewhere to go (your house), a reason to go there (a movie), some condoms and kinda build attraction and escalate kino for the entire interaction.

When you get back you can often get LMR and if you want a relationship tell her you respect that and will wait, then she will fuck you in the morning and like you more.
Author:  Antithesis [ Fri Jun 05, 2009 10:15 am ]
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Lets assume I messed it up with her, time to move to the next girl...

Should I assume they want sex on the first date?

As in, should I get much more assertive?

It's strange tho but I still feel sex on the 2nd or 3rd date is better because the attraction only gets stronger through follow up calls and texts
I think sex should always be in your mind as a possibility, but never an assumed conclusion especially on the first date.

Sounds like she probably wanted sex (to some extent), but your behavior/level of assertion/approach wasn't quite what she was looking for-- so it didn't happen. If she didn't want to go into the back seat you should have just kept working in the front seat until things got so steamy there was no other choice but the back seat. I suspect on the next date (if you get one) she will be more guarded about being physical with you. This means you will have to be more assertive in initiating and instigating to get what you want. :wink:

~Antithesis
Author:  vat_fagina [ Fri Jun 05, 2009 11:24 am ]
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Quote:
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Lets assume I messed it up with her, time to move to the next girl...

Should I assume they want sex on the first date?

As in, should I get much more assertive?

It's strange tho but I still feel sex on the 2nd or 3rd date is better because the attraction only gets stronger through follow up calls and texts
I think sex should always be in your mind as a possibility, but never an assumed conclusion especially on the first date.

Sounds like she probably wanted sex (to some extent), but your behavior/level of assertion/approach wasn't quite what she was looking for-- so it didn't happen. If she didn't want to go into the back seat you should have just kept working in the front seat until things got so steamy there was no other choice but the back seat. I suspect on the next date (if you get one) she will be more guarded about being physical with you. This means you will have to be more assertive in initiating and instigating to get what you want. :wink:

~Antithesis
You're right man...I didn't expect anything to happen on the first date so I flopped...

She told me she had other dates with men this week...

She told me on our first date that she just wants fun and no relationships...All good but sex on the first date was still a little strange...I duno
Author:  Jaybot [ Fri Jun 05, 2009 11:36 am ]
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People looking for relationships meet up to bond, people looking for fun meet up for fun and action
Author:  vat_fagina [ Fri Jun 05, 2009 11:52 am ]
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People looking for relationships meet up to bond, people looking for fun meet up for fun and action
What does that even mean??
Author:  Jaybot [ Fri Jun 05, 2009 12:31 pm ]
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let me break it down further, people looking for a relationship will go on dates, people looking to fuck will eat food then fuck.
Author:  vat_fagina [ Fri Jun 05, 2009 12:52 pm ]
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Great work.
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