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| Author: | jmac565 [ Wed Jun 03, 2009 11:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | ive never got a kiss |
im 18 and ive never got a kiss im kind of shy i dont get how to talk to girls right |
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| Author: | Mercurial [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 12:56 am ] |
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well your in the right forum, read the posts and learn from them. dont worry bout not kissing a girl. thinking about it so much will make it even harder, once it happens you will see that its not a big deal and probably wasnt worth getting worked up about in the first place |
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| Author: | xibuz [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 1:21 am ] |
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No shame. Fix the shy part and don't put the first kiss on a pedestal. Wow I'm gonna have my first [kiss/fuck/date/cuddle etc] = nervous/anxious. There's an endless amount of girls I could hook up with, I'm just gonna play with this one and see where it goes. Fuck the outcome, enjoy the climb= acceptance confidence = winner. |
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| Author: | jmac565 [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 5:55 am ] |
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Thanks alot it's more of me being scared to do it and getting made fun of |
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| Author: | jmac565 [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 5:56 am ] |
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Thanks alot it's more of me being scared to do it and getting made fun of |
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| Author: | Plays Upfront [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 7:20 am ] |
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It comes out naturally. Maybe the first 5 seconds is awkward but after that it will be smooth. |
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| Author: | johnclemente [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 1:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | First kiss |
Its easy. Just kiss her like she is kisses you. Mirror her kiss and you will be kissing her like she wants to be kissed. And correct me if I am wrong, but you may lack the confidence to k-close because you have never done it before. The way you become confident at things is to do them over and over again. No problem, and its no big deal. We were all there at one time. I want to recommend a book to you by IN10SE. ''Secret Principles of Pleasure: A Lovers Manual of Secrets'' |
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| Author: | Cock_roach [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 6:56 am ] |
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Jmac, it's nothing wrong with you. You have just to get some knowledge. Read some classic stuff at the beginning - for example "The game" by Neil Strauss. You will know what your next thing to do should be after reading that. "The game" is good because the author was at the same stage you are. You'll get know that everything can be learned, you don't have to have a natural seducting talent. |
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| Author: | phermax [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 10:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ive never got a kiss |
Quote: im 18 and ive never got a kiss im kind of shy i dont get how to talk to girls right
So you're a late bloomer, big deal. Girls love shy guys. Here's what you do.1. If your shy, be the biggest shy guy there ever was. Play it up. There are lots of girls that love to hook-up with guys they consider "fixers". It makes them feel valuable. 2. For the next 30 days (in your own bashful way) say hi to every female you come in contact with no matter what they look like. 3. You must be agenda free. Forget about getting that first kiss. Remember "Your problems will go away, if you don't get to attached to them... Next! |
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| Author: | phermax [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 10:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ive never got a kiss |
Quote: im 18 and ive never got a kiss im kind of shy i dont get how to talk to girls right
So you're a late bloomer, big deal. Girls love shy guys. Here's what you do.1. If your shy, be the biggest shy guy there ever was. Play it up. There are lots of girls that love to hook-up with guys they consider "fixers". It makes them feel valuable. 2. For the next 30 days (in your own bashful way) say hi to every female you come in contact with no matter what they look like. 3. You must be agenda free. Forget about getting that first kiss. Remember "Your problems will go away, if you don't get to attached to them... Next! |
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| Author: | phermax [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 10:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ive never got a kiss |
Quote: im 18 and ive never got a kiss im kind of shy i dont get how to talk to girls right
So you're a late bloomer, big deal. Girls love shy guys. Here's what you do.1. If your shy, be the biggest shy guy there ever was. Play it up. There are lots of girls that love to hook-up with guys they consider "fixers". It makes them feel valuable. 2. For the next 30 days (in your own bashful way) say hi to every female you come in contact with no matter what they look like. 3. You must be agenda free. Forget about getting that first kiss. Remember "Your problems will go away, if you don't get to attached to them... Next! |
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| Author: | phermax [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 10:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ive never got a kiss |
Quote: im 18 and ive never got a kiss im kind of shy i dont get how to talk to girls right
So you're a late bloomer, big deal. Girls love shy guys. Here's what you do.1. If your shy, be the biggest shy guy there ever was. Play it up. There are lots of girls that love to hook-up with guys they consider "fixers". It makes them feel valuable. 2. For the next 30 days (in your own bashful way) say hi to every female you come in contact with no matter what they look like. 3. You must be agenda free. Forget about getting that first kiss. Remember "Your problems will go away, if you don't get to attached to them... Next! |
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| Author: | phermax [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 10:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ive never got a kiss |
Quote: im 18 and ive never got a kiss im kind of shy i dont get how to talk to girls right
So you're a late bloomer, big deal. Girls love shy guys. Here's what you do.1. If your shy, be the biggest shy guy there ever was. Play it up. There are lots of girls that love to hook-up with guys they consider "fixers". It makes them feel valuable. 2. For the next 30 days (in your own bashful way) say hi to every female you come in contact with no matter what they look like. 3. You must be agenda free. Forget about getting that first kiss. Remember "Your problems will go away, if you don't get to attached to them... Next! |
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| Author: | catalyst1 [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 4:54 pm ] |
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wow quintuple post I know this is probably not the right thing to say on site like this etc but as they say in The 40 Year Old Virgin - "Prey on drunk bitches". Seriously. Do it. Only do it a couple of times though. It just gets that load of your shoulder and instantly makes you about 10x more confident in life. Good Luck |
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| Author: | LawlessGreed [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 5:15 pm ] |
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Quote: wow quintuple post
This.I know this is probably not the right thing to say on site like this etc but as they say in The 40 Year Old Virgin - "Prey on drunk bitches". Seriously. Do it. Only do it a couple of times though. It just gets that load of your shoulder and instantly makes you about 10x more confident in life. Good Luck 18 is still young bro...dont worry too much about it. I was still in your position when I was about 20 before i made some serious life changes. If you can get into clubs, thats your best bet...try and get it on with a few drunk girls. As catalyst said, you're confidence will start to build up from there. Then you can get down to doing some serious work on your game... But Good Luck....keep us updated! |
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