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Author:  asdf [ Wed Jun 03, 2009 9:27 pm ]
Post subject:  can anyone help calm me down. im so nervous!!!!!!

plz giv me some motivation or sumthin
tomorrow is the last day of school and i really wanna ask her out but i get so nervous and then make up excuses like "oh ill just ask her tomorrow"

AND tomorrow is the last tomorrow before school ends

iv neva had a gf cuz i always chicken out

help
giv me some words of wisdom or sumthin

Author:  Mac Dreezy [ Wed Jun 03, 2009 9:43 pm ]
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Don't be a bitch. Man the fuck up. You only live once.

Help much?

Author:  Mr E [ Wed Jun 03, 2009 10:02 pm ]
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Hello,

hope this helps. it might get to you a little late but anywya,

the future is made up of the same stuff as the present. So, what happened today is going to happen tomorrow unless you take on the fact that you are going to get nervousagain./You are probably going to be getting really wound up and yet that is OK. Don't think for a minute that you are goign to read anywhere on the internet a magic deal to feel really confident and turn into Brad Pitt and charm the girl in seconds. Forget it. That is bullshit.

You can howevever see it as an opportunity to get your shit together for yourself and be willing to get blown out. The fear of rejection is far worse than rejection itself so go for it!!!!

When you see her, and she is over there talking to her friends and looking hot as shit, and you feel your heart pounding, it is OK. Go, hand in hand with your fear and do it anyway, Just go direct, with a cute smile on your face,
"hey, i just had to come over and say hi, otherwise, i could spend the whole of summer regretting it.
"I am Joe, what is your name? Listen I have a class in five minutes, must go, but maybe we could hang out sometime?"

take it from there. but re;ax bro, she isn't the only hottie out there. ok?

Author:  Ryuuku [ Wed Jun 03, 2009 10:10 pm ]
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if you never pull the trigger you'll never hit the target. EVER. if you keep doing what you are doing you will keep getting what you are getting.

Author:  polarbearx [ Wed Jun 03, 2009 10:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Go get her tiger !!

Dont even hesitate for a second. Do not delay - just go for it. No offense but are u a man or a piece of pussy? Girls like guys with THE BALLS! Take the LEAD !!!

Remember - if u dont attempt you will never find the answer from her. Believe me it would be much harder for you not to attempt and than live thinking that she might as well answered YES to you. Even if you shake or your approach is not the best - she will still have respect for you for your courage, however what matters is that you will respect urself more.

I was approaching hot bitches and gorgeous girls sometimes shaking like crazy. Yes, some of them answered NO, but most ended up with me ripping them apart.

Just do it dude !!!

Author:  TrueFlame [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 2:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: can anyone help calm me down. im so nervous!!!!!!

Quote:
plz giv me some motivation or sumthin
tomorrow is the last day of school and i really wanna ask her out but i get so nervous and then make up excuses like "oh ill just ask her tomorrow"

AND tomorrow is the last tomorrow before school ends

iv neva had a gf cuz i always chicken out

help
giv me some words of wisdom or sumthin
It is no big deal. If she's at school with you, she knows you, and has probably made her mind up already whether she likes you, so a nervous approach won't make a big deal either way. If she says no there are three billion other women out there, and trust me, at some later point you'll be having mind-blowing sex with one of them who's much better looking than this one.

I find it helpful to get slightly, though only slightly angry when asking a women out. The aggression tends to eliminate some of the nervousness and make you seem more masculine. Get angry with your AFC self at passing up all these opportunities till now.

Good luck. Remember, the important thing is to ask her, not neccessarily to get a yes. Asking her out is the most important thing you can do to improve your life in future, it is way important than the actual outcome.

Author:  erttfgukh2345600 [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 3:17 am ]
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Go for it, you already know that you'll regret it if you don't.

Live so that you don't look back and regret the choices you've made, or in this case the choices you haven't made.

Author:  baloo [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 4:09 am ]
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senor, this is coming at you way too late at this point but you should use this at least for a lesson on what not to do when gaming a girl ... i'd bet you could probably be way farther along with her at this point if you just relaxed you shouldn't be so intimidated by any girl or at the very least not show it to her, show her confidence my friend girls love it

(this is all predicated on you not going up to her, if you did then nice work sir)

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