Hi everyone this is my first post and im sure a popular topic.....my ever eternal question is... is it better to keep your current girlfriend until you find something better or let her go and go for the kind of girl you really want??

The trick is everytime you go for what you 'think' you want you end up finding something you dont like or it turns out to be something you didnt really want at all. Girls play up their best image at first but tend to change when you get them. After getting too comfortable and bored do you start the quest for greener grass or is it a never ending cycle of 'something better out there'? In my experience i find that when in a relationship i tend attract more women then when im single always having that hint of desperation....women always want what they cant have. You can also be more choosy cause you always have your bases covered. Ive been in a constant relationship for almost 5 yrs but with many different woman and often much overlap (often much hell to pay with constant lies, deciet and mistrust) is this a bad thing or is it better to just stay single and plow through until magically the girl of your dreams appears....