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| Author: | ledgerbestjoker [ Sat May 30, 2009 6:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | My pua training never prepared me for this... |
So after consistently reading on pua, talking to other puas, and associating myself with the community in general, I decided to take my confidence and game to an entirely new level. I have been working on body language, presence, energy, etc.. I don't really care for MM I find it a waste. Anyways, I show up to this girl's house with my buddy and there are around 5 chicks and 4 guys (including us.) Some of the chicks were hot some weren't, but my target was HB 8 hanging around with HB 3. Well the body language and confidence that I have learned seems to really work because the second I walk in HB 8 is all over me and hugging me and actually initiating kino with me. Now the problem: HB8 comes up to me and says HB 3 thinks I am hot and wants to fuck. Not gonna happen. Yet the problem is I was going to flat out say this but I remembered there is a fine line between alpha male and asshole, and I was going to step into the asshole boundary. I figured it might have been a shit test so I just ignored it. Now the night kept progressing and for some reason I ended up in the shower with both of them in the dark.. at first HB8 was grinding on me and touching me like crazy... but then fucking HB3 cock blocks the hell out of me and sets herself as a wall in between me and HB8 and does not let me through. As you guys can see where I am going, HB3 ended up destroying my night and cock blocking me like no other... thankfully when I left the house I got HB8's number and she text me within 10 minutes of leaving asking where I am going to be during the summer... so I can set up a day 2. How do I deal with this situation so I can vow it never happens again? |
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Sat May 30, 2009 6:33 pm ] |
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Take that bitch down early, tell her she isn't your type. SOI the target so she knows what is up, then isolate to somewhere where the stinker isn't. Or get a mate to wing you |
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| Author: | trixsta [ Sat May 30, 2009 9:44 pm ] |
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SOI? |
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| Author: | ledgerbestjoker [ Sat May 30, 2009 9:48 pm ] |
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SOI = show of interest.. just means that you are letting the girl know you are interested. So if I am ever confronted with this disaster, do I just pull the HB 3 to the side and let her know I am not interested, and shortly after kino and IOIs with HB 8 I give the SOI? Also, how straightforward should my SOI have been in this situation with the strong IOIs she was giving me? |
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| Author: | Gifted1ne [ Sat May 30, 2009 9:58 pm ] |
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I think you gave the Hb8 to much attention you should have push-pull her. The HB3 situation she saw you and her friend having to much fun as well as the fact that she is the mother hen of her friend.I would have got good with the HB3 first and show her that I was a nice guy so she could force me onto the HB8 |
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| Author: | Fin [ Sat May 30, 2009 10:04 pm ] |
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Quote: I think you gave the Hb8 to much attention you should have push-pull her. The HB3 situation she saw you and her friend having to much fun as well as the fact that she is the mother hen of her friend.I would have got good with the HB3 first and show her that I was a nice guy so she could force me onto the HB8
1. No, he wasn't direct enough with the hb 8, the hb3 assumed he wasn't taken and decided to step in.2. Going direct with hb 8 would have sorted this from the start. 3. HB3 was not the mother hen, becuase she wasn't being protective and pushing him out in order to stop the girls from being "picked up" 4. As for indirect advice, THE CLAW! and isolation possibly also some mirroring with hb8 would demonstrate to others around what is going on. |
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| Author: | forefit [ Sun May 31, 2009 3:53 pm ] |
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I wouldn't worry to much. You achieved your goal. You got the HB8 number and she text you trying to arrange another time to hangout, soo shes clearly into you. Just arrange a time to meet up and make sure you dont bring the HB3 and you should be set. |
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