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Author:  Horseman [ Sat May 30, 2009 4:45 am ]
Post subject:  You're sweet good or bad?
Is it good or bad if a girl calls you sweet? Could that mean you're in the friends zone or something else?
Author:  breaker [ Sat May 30, 2009 5:48 am ]
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In order to answer this question every single girls perception of the word would have to be exactly the same and heres a tip for you champ they arn't. It can only be based on an individual basis.
For example think of your perception of the word cute, would you sleep with a cute girl?
My answer is No because what I percieve as the word cute is a cute baby, a cute animal and a cute little kid etc to me the word cute ennacts to things I percieve in a non sexual way unlike such as words like hot, sexy and beautiful etc will is how I would describe someone I am sexually attracted to.
So as I said depending on how she percieves the word sweet it could be the sweet guy that opens the door for her or slides out her chair etc or the sweet guy that makes her heart skip a beat everytime she is around him, so I wouldn't expect any answer here only vague opionions look for IOI's but don't write being called sweet off as a bad thing yet IMO it is always good to be considered sweet because you can be sweet and a jerk at the same time so even if she likes jerks that doesn't mean being sweet rules you out.
Author:  SiNfUl [ Sat May 30, 2009 6:42 pm ]
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In my experience, women don't refer to guys they want to f*ck as sweet, nice or thoughtful. Now, the guys they call hot, sexy, mean, a$$hole, they are the ones that have all kinds of fun. But again, that's my own personal experience.
Author:  Jaybot [ Sat May 30, 2009 6:54 pm ]
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In the same way we get a reaction calling a girl cute lots of women use this as a shit test of sorts. I had a right laugh with one girl, we were on the level about using this sort of language so I called her cute, she called me sweet, so I call her adorable and it carries on. Getting more and more patronizing, genius
Author:  Billionaire [ Sat May 30, 2009 7:17 pm ]
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Yeah I think "sweet" has a patronizing tone. I think that's usually what chicks say to guys that they LJBF'd when the guy does some kind of supplicating.
Author:  Mr E [ Sat May 30, 2009 7:22 pm ]
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Hey bro,

just come back from a little detour to the airport. I used to work there and so there is this cutey who I really liked who works there so I thought what the fuck. I am going to see if she is there and hey presto! there she was.

I was, to be honest, amazed that she was there....

anyway, she instantly recognised me and i went over to see her and say hello.
she was looking amazing, a little older, but what the hell,

HER= HEY STRANGER, LONG TIME NO SEE, YOURE LOOKING REALLY GOOD.(this sounds like bullshit but that is what she said) she comes over to give us a kiss and puts her hand just around my waist. It felt like great.

my heart is like pounding.

anyway, I try to keep my shit together and we fluff for a while. some guy comes up and she has to deal with him, she is working so i say,

well i can see your busys so must fly.
she says, well you are looking really good.(swear to God she said it twice)
i said, "you re looking great yourself, so we must get together sometime.
her> well, lets see if we bump into each other sometime.

I was thinking, should I go for number close. but then i didn't want to risk blowing it. she came over again and gave me another kiss... to say goodbye Jesus, i felt absolutely great.

anyway what the heck, i didn't get the number just a vague, bump into you sometime and left it like that. Part of me was saying, maybe she has somebody and lives with her boyfriend, if i ask for her number she might be thinking, hang on a minute, i have a boyfriend, so why would he be doing this?

anyway, i left, feeling good.

btw, the approach anxiety i felt before talking to her lasted just a few seconds into the chat and then went away.

but getting back to the story, i reckon when she was saying "hey you look really good" and put her hand around my waist, part of me was saying, (perhaps she just thinks I am sweet) but God that moment was hot!!!!

who knows what the hell is going on in the mind of the hot babes. :roll:
Author:  APfritzMCG [ Sat May 30, 2009 8:41 pm ]
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Mr. E, that girl wanted you to ask her for her number. thats whats goin on in hot babes minds

to the point, "sweet" is only good if youre in a relationship with her. otherwise leave now and keep your balls intact
Author:  Jav [ Sat May 30, 2009 8:44 pm ]
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Quote:
In my experience, women don't refer to guys they want to f*ck as sweet, nice or thoughtful. Now, the guys they call hot, sexy, mean, a$$hole, they are the ones that have all kinds of fun. But again, that's my own personal experience.
you forgot "cute"
Author:  Jav [ Sat May 30, 2009 8:46 pm ]
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Quote:
Hey bro,

just come back from a little detour to the airport. I used to work there and so there is this cutey who I really liked who works there so I thought what the fuck. I am going to see if she is there and hey presto! there she was.

I was, to be honest, amazed that she was there....

anyway, she instantly recognised me and i went over to see her and say hello.
she was looking amazing, a little older, but what the hell,

HER= HEY STRANGER, LONG TIME NO SEE, YOURE LOOKING REALLY GOOD.(this sounds like bullshit but that is what she said) she comes over to give us a kiss and puts her hand just around my waist. It felt like great.

my heart is like pounding.

anyway, I try to keep my shit together and we fluff for a while. some guy comes up and she has to deal with him, she is working so i say,

well i can see your busys so must fly.
she says, well you are looking really good.(swear to God she said it twice)
i said, "you re looking great yourself, so we must get together sometime.
her> well, lets see if we bump into each other sometime.

I was thinking, should I go for number close. but then i didn't want to risk blowing it. she came over again and gave me another kiss... to say goodbye Jesus, i felt absolutely great.

anyway what the heck, i didn't get the number just a vague, bump into you sometime and left it like that. Part of me was saying, maybe she has somebody and lives with her boyfriend, if i ask for her number she might be thinking, hang on a minute, i have a boyfriend, so why would he be doing this?

anyway, i left, feeling good.

btw, the approach anxiety i felt before talking to her lasted just a few seconds into the chat and then went away.

but getting back to the story, i reckon when she was saying "hey you look really good" and put her hand around my waist, part of me was saying, (perhaps she just thinks I am sweet) but God that moment was hot!!!!

who knows what the hell is going on in the mind of the hot babes. :roll:
next time you see her: Give me your number, maybe we can hang out sometime.


has worked for me.
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