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Author:  Ryandust [ Mon May 25, 2009 1:24 am ]
Post subject:  Swearing...DHV?
I'm not someone who swears alot but if you do is it considered DHV?
Author:  eMJay [ Mon May 25, 2009 1:45 am ]
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If its not a part of your personality already then NO!

Its actually considered a DLV to swear alot when its not to make a point or is essential for a sentence. It shows that you dont have a strong vocabulary...
Author:  Dangerboy [ Mon May 25, 2009 12:34 pm ]
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you're completely missing the plot if you think that swearing could be considered a DHV.
as eMJay said - it shows that you have a weak vocabulary.
apart from that, it also demonstrates a sort of lack of class, especially if you swear a lot.
from personal experience i've seen that girls dont mind too much if you drop the occasional bomb if it's used in the right context

"oh shit! i completely forgot!" - acceptable.

"i took a big shit" - not acceptable.

to be safe, just dont swear until they do and then you can match their speaking style - im told this helps build rapport.
Author:  Jaybot [ Mon May 25, 2009 12:52 pm ]
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I am in two minds about this, I swear a lot but I think you need to demonstrate class if you want to get away with it. So you don't seem like a foul mouthed dumbass, you need to know when to use it and when to consciously avoid swearing.

But yeah certain girls don't mind but some really don't dig swearing.
Author:  Ryandust [ Mon May 25, 2009 5:31 pm ]
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I always would have thought that swearing is what alpha males use often.
Thanks for the reply's :D
Author:  Jokerex [ Mon May 25, 2009 11:03 pm ]
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never swear... !! well not never but not when your trying to woe a girl
Author:  erttfgukh2345600 [ Mon May 25, 2009 11:23 pm ]
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Its not necessarily a DHV, it can come across as funny though, but only if its congruent with your personality. It really depends on WHY you're swearing. If you're just saying something simple and swearing then its acceptable. If you're just swearing because you're insecure and you need to get attention then it'll be pretty obvious. Like somebody who cusses every few words "Yeah I just fucking.. Did some shit yesterday.. And it fucking.. " etc. I know many people like this and its pretty insecure and is fairly transparent that they're just running out of things to say.
Author:  Lucky D [ Mon May 25, 2009 11:47 pm ]
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being non-swearer myself, i can say y'all are missing 2 big factors
Once ago, someone told me something, and swore kinda like, "move motherf*cker", and he gave off a huge vibe of Alpha-Maleness!
It only happened to me once (when i was 14yrs old) BUT it shocked me how much it affected me, especially because i felt that instant Dominance, knowing he wasn't even serious at all. I will never forget it!
When used properly, swearing can be seen as dominance & confidance.

Also, when someone swears it can make the funniest jokes, especially when its unexpected! like when dave chapelle says "GOT YA BITCH!".
When used properly, swearing can be seen as creative or unexpected and thus, not a lack of vocab.

Personally, i don't swear to show dominance, but cuss words sometimes slip out when i crack a joke. the rarer they are, the more powerfull they are.
Author:  Antithesis [ Tue May 26, 2009 11:36 am ]
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Honestly swearing makes you look ignorant and uneducated. I believe some swearing in your vocabulary is acceptable but adding it to your vocabulary deliberately would be a strong DLV for most women. Think of swearing like salt; it should be used to accent and flavor what you're saying, never become the conversation/meal itself.
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