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Author:  ShadoWSlash [ Sun May 24, 2009 4:24 am ]
Post subject:  My friends say this is bullshit
hey guys, im reading The Game (about the middle of the book) and i found it so amazing that i started to search new routines in the internet

but when i told my male friends about this...openers, negs, demonstrations of value they laugh and say its ridiculous and ill look like a clown saying them to girls

like "excuse me, i need your opinion on something. do you believe spells work?" and coming with the post-history about a friend whose GF cast a spell to engage him...
they say all girls will think of me as a retard and idiot

why they say this :S?
Author:  Robert_Angel [ Sun May 24, 2009 5:05 am ]
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A friend of mine made fun of me to my face infront of all our friends about getting "dating advice" from a certain book.

The thing is, he is the one dating a horse, not me.

If you really want to prove them wrong, keep it up. Show them the error of their ways and soon they'll be going out to get their own copies of The Game.
Author:  bluemoon [ Sun May 24, 2009 5:11 am ]
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They say that because pickup is a goal-oriented activity, and they're not goal-oriented people. You could come up with a great idea for a new business and even if it had a very high probability of success you would get the same exact reaction from them.
Author:  mike. [ Sun May 24, 2009 6:59 am ]
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your friend are absolutely right!!!

lol what?! is what your saying right now in your head


yes they are right if you go up and pull this " who cheats more" or "do you believe in spells" crap you will look stupid lol

(not saying what mystery and style has brought to the table is worthless) but the game i believe has evolved a little more since then



but you wanting to change your dating life/ life in general is not stupid AT ALL

the reason why they mock you is because they just cant handle it!
Here you are wanting to achieve more and have a better life
and they just want to remain in this little place where they are happy
with the little they have. They wish they had the courage to step up and say "hey i wanna improve this area in my life"
don't worry about what they think
if your doing this for you
then that is GREAT!!

cheers and welcome to the community :)

-hatch
Author:  expat_of_love [ Sun May 24, 2009 8:06 am ]
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They say that because pickup is a goal-oriented activity, and they're not goal-oriented people. You could come up with a great idea for a new business and even if it had a very high probability of success you would get the same exact reaction from them.
Goal-oriented people are the most miserable creatures on this planet. Live moment to moment. A man who is looking to the future is a man who is miserable. When you are happy you don't want the future to come! You want the present moment to remain with you forever. Hence, the saying..."Time flies when you are having fun."

Yes, traditional PUA is goal-oriented. That is why PUA's are all so miserable. America is a country filled with empty smiles.
Author:  madals [ Sun May 24, 2009 10:04 am ]
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Are your friends successful with women? If not, why are you listening to them?
If they are, why aren't you observing and learning from them?
Author:  b0dhi [ Sun May 24, 2009 2:49 pm ]
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Prove them wrong the next time your out by using a practiced routine on a hb.
Author:  silverito [ Sun May 24, 2009 3:07 pm ]
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it depends on the person. For instance I would not do those canned openers as it seems fake and completely not my style. But there are people who can not open direct or can not think of their own ways so they use them.
Using something (even if that something is not the coolest thing) is still better than just saying nothing and loosing your chance. Its that simple.
Author:  Korruptx [ Sun May 24, 2009 3:26 pm ]
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Dude.. obviously they think its lame because it actually is.

Canned openers talking about 'Spells' and 'Who lies more' etc are fucking lame theres no getting away from it I'm afraid..

The book 'The game' in my opinion is outdated and unhelpful, the community has evolved far past it.

Mystery and Neil Strauss are complete nerds.. its that simple, the only difference between them and any other nerd is that they are pretending to be something different.

I mean come on guys... have you seen what Mystery wears even when he goes on television to do interviews? Fuck me, its actually embarrasing!
Author:  Premierr [ Sun May 24, 2009 3:31 pm ]
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I dont blame them actually, if one of my buddies told the rest of us about this pua stuff, this thing that will magically draw women to you, we would definetly think it was bullshit and make fun of him. Because none of us want to admit in front of everyone that they don't have a clue how to attract girls, no one want to admit to their friends that they are an afc.
But if i discovered this on my own, i would be curious, which i did and now i dont have a single doubt about this stuff. That's why i don't tell my friends about this, because they will definetly make fun of me, no doubt. But i will keep this stuff to myself for now until i've learned it so i can prove them wrong when they have doubts.

But your friends, are they successful with women? if no then they dont have a clue what theyre talking bout. if yes then you should try to learn from them
Author:  ShadoWSlash [ Sun May 24, 2009 3:56 pm ]
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Well im new to this world i have not tried anything on field but since you guys say openers like "do you think spells work?" "i need you opinion on..." "tell me.. who lies more, girls or guys?" are outdated, is it bad for me to go out and use them as field experience?

tnx :)
Author:  Watermelon [ Sun May 24, 2009 5:06 pm ]
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That's because your friends are narrow-minded retards. I've also said to people that I will earn the money the way I am doing it now and they were all like "lol, no that's not possible". Then I just kept shut and proved them wrong.

99% people are very narrow and think too much inside the box.

Still you should filter all the information you receive through your own mind. Not everything what's on the internet is true.
Author:  b0dhi [ Sun May 24, 2009 5:57 pm ]
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Dude.. obviously they think its lame because it actually is.

Canned openers talking about 'Spells' and 'Who lies more' etc are fucking lame theres no getting away from it I'm afraid..

The book 'The game' in my opinion is outdated and unhelpful, the community has evolved far past it.

Mystery and Neil Strauss are complete nerds.. its that simple, the only difference between them and any other nerd is that they are pretending to be something different.

I mean come on guys... have you seen what Mystery wears even when he goes on television to do interviews? Fuck me, its actually embarrasing!
Canned openers are great for people who are just getting into the game, but I agree, you should develop your own openers which relate to you.

I disagree with Mystery and Neil being complete nerds and The Game being unhelpful although it is outdated. I thought The Game was very helpful and a definite must buy.
Author:  erttfgukh2345600 [ Tue May 26, 2009 6:23 pm ]
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Don't tell your friends about this stuff then. I stopped telling anyone I knew about this stuff. Its your own personal goals. Do you really need their validation to go through with it? Fuck no. You don't need to tell anybody about it, you just need to go out and make an effort, improve yourself, and fuck what people think. If you feel the need to tell your friends about it then you're still seeking validation in some ways.

Plus the social consequences are pretty devastating if you have shitty friends, like the ones you've mentioned seem like. If word goes around that you're learning to pick up girls from a dating advice book that makes you seem like a loser. All that PUA stuff is always taken out of context and put into the wrong light. Just avoid this problem in the first place by simply keeping it to yourself. My closest, closest, closest friends do not even know about this.
Author:  Corey [ Tue May 26, 2009 6:30 pm ]
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Dude.. obviously they think its lame because it actually is.

Canned openers talking about 'Spells' and 'Who lies more' etc are fucking lame theres no getting away from it I'm afraid..

The book 'The game' in my opinion is outdated and unhelpful, the community has evolved far past it.

Mystery and Neil Strauss are complete nerds.. its that simple, the only difference between them and any other nerd is that they are pretending to be something different.

I mean come on guys... have you seen what Mystery wears even when he goes on television to do interviews? Fuck me, its actually embarrasing!
I absolutely agree with you.
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