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Author:  Nevermind2004x [ Sat May 23, 2009 11:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Question regarding an ex I want to get back with

Right...a long story made short...would be something like this:
Dated for 4 months (insanely in love), broke up , she got married , got divorced , saw her for the first time since the break up yesterday. She says she wants to be friends and just barely mentioned she's sorry she hurt me. She hasn't shown any signs of re-gaining her attraction to me, except some IOIs that I don't know if i should consider friendly or not (don't know if game rules apply the same way they do when you're meeting someone for the first time as opposed to when it's someone who knows everything about you etc.). So we've got 1 more day before we both go to our separate countries for summer vacation (currently in uni) and I'm wondering what's the best thing to do...I was thinking of attempting to kiss her in the final moment before we say a final goodbye for the next 3 months ( unfortunately to most PUAs' disapproval - yes i've got uanitis and I'm not willing to give her up since I can't get this girl off my mind ) . Do you think that if I pull it off right it could do the trick? Or should I proceed in any other way? ( for those wondering, if it works out well - yes i'll find a way to go and see her during these 3 months)

Thank you in advance for your help :/

Author:  870 [ Sun May 24, 2009 12:20 am ]
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Since you're not actually in a relationship, I moved this thread to Newbie Questions. Please post in the appropriate sections.

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I'm not willing to give her up since I can't get this girl off my mind
Simply by making this statement, you are setting yourself up for failure. A basic principle of pickup (and life in general) is that in order to get something, you have to be willing to risk losing it. Lose the willingness to walk away, and you will inevitably lose the girl.

Your boy,
870

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