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Author:  supa [ Sat May 23, 2009 1:36 pm ]
Post subject:  I've got no friends.
It's true, I've actually got no friends (to sarge with anyway). I have 3 friends I see on a regular basis. The one person I can sarge with goes to uni so I only see him for about 2-3 days once a month. My other very close friend is always working & he's kinda got a girl anyway, and even if he didn't he's useless with women. My other very good friend is living with his girl & is a little bit pussy-whipped, we go out but he has no intention of meeting girls.

I used to have loads of friends. They've all dried up and either had kids, got engaged, got mortgages & settled down with a girl. I never see any of them any more. The ones that don't have girls are all fucking wastemen pot-heads who live in my scummy town & I don't like to associate with them any more as all they do is waste their lives smoking weed. I mean I blaze the odd joint from time to time with a mate but it's a rarity. They all blaze every day & wonder why they cant meet women. Even if they didnt blaze they're thick as shit & would fuck it up for me while Im talking to girls.

This is bullshit. I'm like the only party boy left!! What the fuck happened to all my pals. Fucking dried up at the age of 25 or so.
Author:  trixsta [ Sat May 23, 2009 4:53 pm ]
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I believe that's 'life', unfortunately. Find a girl of your own.
Author:  *olie* [ Sat May 23, 2009 9:03 pm ]
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im in the same situation except 3 of my friends are all pussywhipped the only solution is to go out and sarge on your own, you might even make new guy friends?
Author:  trapmasta [ Sun May 24, 2009 1:32 am ]
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sign me up for the i have no friends team
Author:  SirKonstantine [ Sun May 24, 2009 2:40 am ]
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Dude, you can start a frick'n cult. I was at the bar and these two guys seen how i was BT spiking a 4 set and were totally amazed. Now I have 2 new buddies to go out with. What is even better is that they are bouncers at another club in town. Guys follow pussy, if you can get pussy, they will follow you.
Author:  Alex88 [ Mon May 25, 2009 3:35 pm ]
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get out of town for a while . go back pack through europe or drive across country , go on an adventure and live !!!!! . Your friends have done their own thing now do yours . never give up on them as friends tho. alternativly start a new hoby, I strated skydiving classes a few weeks ago within two days i had an entire new group of friends in teh next city .best of luck
Author:  Aprilyapalovera [ Mon May 25, 2009 9:28 pm ]
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Your soul mate is looking for you I'm sure.
Author:  Antithesis [ Tue May 26, 2009 12:46 pm ]
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There's nothing wrong with being a solo act.
Author:  KristallNachte [ Tue May 26, 2009 3:42 pm ]
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you do know you could probably find more than 1 guy from the community that lives nearby to sarge with.
Author:  Manic. [ Tue May 26, 2009 4:02 pm ]
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I used to have loads of friends. They've all dried up and either had kids, got engaged, got mortgages & settled down with a girl. I never see any of them any more. The ones that don't have girls are all fucking wastemen pot-heads who live in my scummy town & I don't like to associate with them any more as all they do is waste their lives smoking weed. I mean I blaze the odd joint from time to time with a mate but it's a rarity. They all blaze every day & wonder why they cant meet women. Even if they didnt blaze they're thick as shit & would fuck it up for me while Im talking to girls.
That is happening to me right now

I would Honestly say i currently have 0 friends and i live in the middle of fucking nowhere, it's so frustrating i don't have the level of 'skill' to go solo act.. sadly :(

i wanna join no friend's club :D
Author:  SqHizzel [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 12:06 pm ]
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Dude, you can start a frick'n cult. I was at the bar and these two guys seen how i was BT spiking a 4 set and were totally amazed. Now I have 2 new buddies to go out with. What is even better is that they are bouncers at another club in town. Guys follow pussy, if you can get pussy, they will follow you.
That is so true! Last night at this underage club I was at. I met this dude who was at the soda bar, he was obviously a pua, he was a effing asshole the things he was doing. Shiiiyut, I knew he was he started talking to me. So I'd walk back every now and then, hang with him. Grab one of the girls that who was near him because her friend was talking with him, it worked well. Haha guys follow the puss.
Author:  PUAdave [ Tue Jun 09, 2009 2:23 am ]
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The ONLY downside of pick up for me has been it's pretty much wrecked my place in my friend circle. So I've been a solo warrior the last 2 months, but I think it has HELPED my game 10 fold.

Basically I wanted to sarge new places, friends were resistant & when they did go with me as a favor I wouldn't spend much time with them anyway which defeated the purpose of them coming. Also I used some tactics & pushed the right buttons to fool around with the hot girl in our friend group who had never like me & IMO only wanted validation from me after I shook her reality up. It was when I wasn't as good as now & made some mistakes but that disrupted our group big time.

Wouldn't trade any of it though, having more fun now alone & it feels like I'm going on an adventure every time I go out & it's forced my game to get much better honestly because I have to bring the party & amuse myself & I have learned how.

I'm at a point now I can walk into a new bar like I did this weekend and meet tons of people, usually get a couple free drinks, people telling me I'm cool, & some numbers. I have reliable bars as well where I've met people. They aren't really friends as I don't hang out with them outside of sarging but if I stall I got a place to regroup & it looks cool because it seems like I know tons of people when I really don't know them.

At this point I know about who will be where what night so I don't have to call & invest that going to hang out as friends specifically & don't because I would have to invest more time into building relationships with them at the bar & I want to meet new people.
Author:  PUAdave [ Tue Jun 09, 2009 2:58 am ]
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Dude, you can start a frick'n cult. I was at the bar and these two guys seen how i was BT spiking a 4 set and were totally amazed. Now I have 2 new buddies to go out with. What is even better is that they are bouncers at another club in town. Guys follow pussy, if you can get pussy, they will follow you.


This is so true, & what I found is it's also very easy to meet dudes even if you really ARENT good with women yet. You just have to bring the fearlessness or even just talk a big game.

When I 1st started going out alone if there were some chodes scoping women, or a guy with game I saw looking like he was getting cock blocked I would say "bro you need a wing man" & immediately they know your intentions & usually accept you & are open to the idea because they are #1 afraid to approach & think they can get value off you by way of chicks #2 need the help.

Never actually works as wings though because you don't really know the guys & it comes out talking to the chicks but it buys you some cheap social proof & you can normally have something to laugh at with some dudes. That's all you need for momentum early. You can run your own game from there out & it gives you a home base to come back to and talk about how things are going or makes you look popular/leader of men if you open a couple sets of dudes. Lots of times the dudes will be like "your the fucking man" which pumps my state as well as I got better with the women.

More recently as I sarge alone sometimes I will just like to sit at the bar alone & have a couple beers and relax & wait for chicks to come to the bar & just open them casually when they do, but I do this very comfortably & am very comfortable just being alone now at the bar now. I have noticed that other random chodes that are also alone & don't have the comfort level I do with being alone gravitate towards me. They usually say I'm cool & buy me drinks, which feels like they are doing that honestly so I will stay there & talk with them & they don't have to sit alone. Usually good dudes though I see myself in before I got into pick up & try to tell them about the community.
Author:  Corey [ Tue Jun 09, 2009 3:06 am ]
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It's true, I've actually got no friends (to sarge with anyway). I have 3 friends I see on a regular basis. The one person I can sarge with goes to uni so I only see him for about 2-3 days once a month. My other very close friend is always working & he's kinda got a girl anyway, and even if he didn't he's useless with women. My other very good friend is living with his girl & is a little bit pussy-whipped, we go out but he has no intention of meeting girls.

I used to have loads of friends. They've all dried up and either had kids, got engaged, got mortgages & settled down with a girl. I never see any of them any more. The ones that don't have girls are all fucking wastemen pot-heads who live in my scummy town & I don't like to associate with them any more as all they do is waste their lives smoking weed. I mean I blaze the odd joint from time to time with a mate but it's a rarity. They all blaze every day & wonder why they cant meet women. Even if they didnt blaze they're thick as shit & would fuck it up for me while Im talking to girls.

This is bullshit. I'm like the only party boy left!! What the fuck happened to all my pals. Fucking dried up at the age of 25 or so.
Look at the bright side, at least if you fail you won't have your friends around to know.
Author:  Troutbum83 [ Wed Jun 10, 2009 6:32 am ]
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By the time anyone except maybe staff realize your flying solo, you will have already or should have already opened a set with a AMOG/AFC, or a set. And from there rotated around and back. Dont worry about that. If it helps you, attend larger, more crowded venues that will allow you too "blend" in.
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