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Author:  LawlessGreed [ Sat May 16, 2009 11:21 pm ]
Post subject:  How long do I wait for her to text?!! What do I say now?!
So....I met this smoking hot girl at a club last night. She approached me on the dance floor and I started doing stupid moves to make her laugh. We ended up kissing for a while. Then she told me she was leaving. I joked that she should take me with her..but she said something about her SPAM. Fair enough. So then she said she would give me her number. I told her I lived in another city which has a bit of a rivalry, which we talked about for a bit...and then she pretty much took the phone out of my hand and punched her digits in :twisted:

So anyway...I sent her a text today, she replied back fairly quick. Im pretty shit with texting so, it took me about 20 minutes to think what to say and get back to her again. But I've heard nothing back since and its been several hours. Is this mind games? Or is she just not interested in taking things any further? Thing is, my phone has a habit of occasionally not receiving texts... :roll:

So...I dont want to appear pushy, but I think I should probably text her back sometime tomorrow. What do I say though?
Author:  ice40 [ Sun May 17, 2009 11:27 pm ]
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Women do not forget that they get text, she has made some decision. Best course of action is to just not do anything until you hear back from her. I have texted girls and had them reply the next day, just dont mention them not replying, pick up where you left off yesterday. I usually use a "hey "nickname I gave her" !" as soon as I get the message, and batter back and forth with her.

I have noticed this a lot more with younger girls, it is a digital age and people use phone calls to talk less and less. Unfortunate, gotta adapt though homie! Good luck
Author:  erttfgukh2345600 [ Sun May 17, 2009 11:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How long do I wait for her to text?!! What do I say now?
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So....I met this smoking hot girl at a club last night. She approached me on the dance floor and I started doing stupid moves to make her laugh. We ended up kissing for a while. Then she told me she was leaving. I joked that she should take me with her..but she said something about her SPAM. Fair enough. So then she said she would give me her number. I told her I lived in another city which has a bit of a rivalry, which we talked about for a bit...and then she pretty much took the phone out of my hand and punched her digits in :twisted:

So anyway...I sent her a text today, she replied back fairly quick. Im pretty shit with texting so, it took me about 20 minutes to think what to say and get back to her again. But I've heard nothing back since and its been several hours. Is this mind games? Or is she just not interested in taking things any further? Thing is, my phone has a habit of occasionally not receiving texts... :roll:

So...I dont want to appear pushy, but I think I should probably text her back sometime tomorrow. What do I say though?
Text her tomorrow, disregard that she ignored your text, and you're over-analyzing this a bit. She hasn't texted back in a few hours so you worry? Bad thought process right there. Try setting up something to meet up with her again, after texting for a bit, trasition into a phone call, and set up a Day2 during your phone call. Then escalate farther than kissing once you meet up again.

Good luck.
Author:  LawlessGreed [ Mon May 18, 2009 12:24 pm ]
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ok...well she finally replied at about 10am yesterday with:
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haha did I say that?what gig did you go to x
Fucking woke me up, so I wasnt too happy. After a shower, I hit her back with:
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Yes. Ur a very rude young lady! I saw *band*. It was so loud it gave me back problems. It was great. U probably wouldnt like them :(
Yeah...not great.She'd been giving me some banter about where I was from, so thats what the 'rude...' parts about.
So I've now had no reply from her for a day. As Ice said,"Women do not forget that they get text, she has made some decision". Thats either based on my music taste...or just...bitch be playing hard to get.

I seem to remember on the night, that after her blatant initial IOI's she kinda tried to ignore me so I basically had to prove myself and work hard for her to even look at me again. Once i'd cracked her it was all good. But then she left, what seemed quite early.

So, im sure she wont text me now. I guess Im back to square one..So i might text her again tonight or tomorrow, and if i get no reply then i'll take the hint and be done.
Author:  LawlessGreed [ Thu May 28, 2009 12:28 am ]
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Bit of an update...

I got drunk last friday...k closed some totally batshit girl after doing some good ground work...so I was feeling kinda good about my game! 8)

Anyway...for some drunken reason I wanted to text this first girl again. She hadnt replied to my last text so I invited her to come to a gig I might be playing. I sent this the early hours of saturday morning and regretted it instantly. Didn't expect a reply.
After a couple of days I totally forgot about her...

Then she texts me back TODAY!!! I mean C'MON!!
Quote:
do it i will come and watch you with open ears as long as you get some dance moves on? X
wtf is this? 5 days later? We may as well be sending letters to each other. I dont know if I should bother replying... feel like I should move on....but shes a total HB10. I dont get girls like this often!!

So...she doesnt reply to one text. Then takes 5 days to reply to the next? Is this shit normal? What can i read into this? Should I wait a week before replying?!!!

People my age are usually great at texting but I have pretty much no clue. Fuck...I had a meltdown after not receiving one for several hours from her :lol:
Author:  WDWK [ Thu May 28, 2009 5:34 pm ]
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Think she's playing you...
Kind of had the same problem with a girl. I try to be slow with texting, but 5 days is to slow ;)

What you said, about the letters and stuff? I have text that to a girl, she liked it. Just throw it out and see what happends. But I would only send it if you are also a slow texting person.

Something like: with this speed we mide as well wright letters and send them by pigeon :wink: Optional: So what is youre adress (dont know if thats a good idea but who knows).

I am not English so you have to make the sentence a little better I guess.

Well, and if she is not responding, or not the way you like it? Then foget her, think she is not really interested then...
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