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Author:  a large farva [ Sat May 09, 2009 10:25 pm ]
Post subject:  How to respond to this HB?

after a few facebook posts back and forth to each other about the final we just had. i say.

me "so when's the next time we get to have a face to face convo? class is over and i can't catch you checking me out from across the room anymore lol"

her "hahaha you wish. and never =)"

seems like to me she's trying to make me beg. shit test maybe? idk i could be wrong but i refuse to fall into that trap of digging and begging. whats the best way for me to respond to something like that.

i don't have her number but we have a rapport built. but she is going back to her hometown next week cuz school is over. it's a drive maybe a half hour from me, so not too bad. any pointers?

Author:  expat_of_love [ Sun May 10, 2009 1:13 am ]
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You are probably too young for her. I NEVER get such hostility from a girl. I know I am good looking and charming, BUT still. You seem to be much too aggressive. Too many PUA types come across as desperate and insecure. Just chill and let life be life.

Girls become defensive when you become aggressive. Write that one down. It comes from MOI. It rhymes!

My solution:
I use 112 meditative techniques. Too many to list. I have been a disciple of a certain Indian Mystic for several years now. I suggest you go dance with the trees. Find their rhythm. Listen to their words. Sometimes I turn down beautiful girls to spend time in front of a mirror (another tantric meditative technique). The point is that you have gotten too far away from your center. Girls feel these things. Become more centered and you will attract the birds, the trees, and the girls.

Author:  a large farva [ Sun May 10, 2009 5:10 am ]
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You are probably too young for her. I NEVER get such hostility from a girl. I know I am good looking and charming, BUT still. You seem to be much too aggressive. Too many PUA types come across as desperate and insecure. Just chill and let life be life.

Girls become defensive when you become aggressive. Write that one down. It comes from MOI. It rhymes!

My solution:
I use 112 meditative techniques. Too many to list. I have been a disciple of a certain Indian Mystic for several years now. I suggest you go dance with the trees. Find their rhythm. Listen to their words. Sometimes I turn down beautiful girls to spend time in front of a mirror (another tantric meditative technique). The point is that you have gotten too far away from your center. Girls feel these things. Become more centered and you will attract the birds, the trees, and the girls.
wtf?

first off she's younger than me.

secondly i responded with.

"lol don't try to play it off. you thought you were slick, but I saw. you couldn't keep your eyes off of me ;-).

besides who else could you have been staring at all the time? Theresa? (the 65 year old women who was in my class) LOL

Author:  a large farva [ Sun May 10, 2009 5:10 am ]
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Quote:
You are probably too young for her. I NEVER get such hostility from a girl. I know I am good looking and charming, BUT still. You seem to be much too aggressive. Too many PUA types come across as desperate and insecure. Just chill and let life be life.

Girls become defensive when you become aggressive. Write that one down. It comes from MOI. It rhymes!

My solution:
I use 112 meditative techniques. Too many to list. I have been a disciple of a certain Indian Mystic for several years now. I suggest you go dance with the trees. Find their rhythm. Listen to their words. Sometimes I turn down beautiful girls to spend time in front of a mirror (another tantric meditative technique). The point is that you have gotten too far away from your center. Girls feel these things. Become more centered and you will attract the birds, the trees, and the girls.
wtf?

first off she's younger than me.

secondly i responded with.

her "lol don't try to play it off. you thought you were slick, but I saw. you couldn't keep your eyes off of me ;-).

besides who else could you have been staring at all the time? Theresa? (the 65 year old women who was in my class) LOL"

her "hahahahahah you caught me!"

Author:  kingcarmelo [ Sun May 10, 2009 5:42 pm ]
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expat you really are in love with yourself, don't be so arrogant all the time. Anyway this is normal interraction for me not hostility, I say you should try get her jealous or freeze her out

Author:  Korruptx [ Sun May 10, 2009 6:35 pm ]
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Quote:
You are probably too young for her. I NEVER get such hostility from a girl. I know I am good looking and charming, BUT still. You seem to be much too aggressive. Too many PUA types come across as desperate and insecure. Just chill and let life be life.

Girls become defensive when you become aggressive. Write that one down. It comes from MOI. It rhymes!

My solution:
I use 112 meditative techniques. Too many to list. I have been a disciple of a certain Indian Mystic for several years now. I suggest you go dance with the trees. Find their rhythm. Listen to their words. Sometimes I turn down beautiful girls to spend time in front of a mirror (another tantric meditative technique). The point is that you have gotten too far away from your center. Girls feel these things. Become more centered and you will attract the birds, the trees, and the girls.

Oh my GOD! ANOTHER one of your posts that is litteraly ridiculous, dude if your so good looking and attractive then why do you even need help from this forum? Your truly a cunt

Author:  SiNfUl [ Sun May 10, 2009 11:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to respond to this HB?

Quote:
after a few facebook posts back and forth to each other about the final we just had. i say.

me "so when's the next time we get to have a face to face convo? class is over and i can't catch you checking me out from across the room anymore lol"

her "hahaha you wish. and never =)"

seems like to me she's trying to make me beg. shit test maybe? idk i could be wrong but i refuse to fall into that trap of digging and begging. whats the best way for me to respond to something like that.

i don't have her number but we have a rapport built. but she is going back to her hometown next week cuz school is over. it's a drive maybe a half hour from me, so not too bad. any pointers?
Maybe she is enjoying the banter, I don't know many girls that don't. Keep the playful flirting going and try not to get frustrated or desperate, it's supposed to be fun right? Think of it as foreplay, but don't put ALL your attention on her, find a few more girls to game.

class is over and i can't catch you checking me out from across the room anymore lol"

Girls love this type of banter, IF they are interested on some level (hint, hint), keep it up.

Author:  Plays Upfront [ Wed May 13, 2009 6:01 am ]
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she's just playing hard to get.. trust me :wink: continue your game, she'll give in someday. just don't over do it.

Author:  Killians [ Wed May 13, 2009 5:47 pm ]
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You are doing well.

Girls like to have a guy work for them...makes them look higher value. Plus its fun to banter a little bit. :wink: Continue for a bit and then go for a number close. if she says no, move on...

Author:  [Vegas] [ Wed May 13, 2009 6:05 pm ]
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me "so when's the next time we get to have a face to face convo? class is over and i can't catch you checking me out from across the room anymore lol"
What you said here is just fine. It's playful and flirty but not too strong or sexual enough to early on so it doesn't "scare" her off. You have her attention now.
Quote:
her "hahaha you wish. and never =)"

seems like to me she's trying to make me beg. shit test maybe? idk i could be wrong but i refuse to fall into that trap of digging and begging. whats the best way for me to respond to something like that.
I don't see this as her trying to make you beg... unless you are dead set on her saying the word "yes" which is not necessary. Text does show emotion but given the words that she said and the smiley face make it sound (or read) like she is being playful back.
Quote:
her "hahahahahah you caught me!"
Did you respond to this yet or is there where you are currently at?

Author:  a large farva [ Thu May 14, 2009 2:08 am ]
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Quote:
me "so when's the next time we get to have a face to face convo? class is over and i can't catch you checking me out from across the room anymore lol"
What you said here is just fine. It's playful and flirty but not too strong or sexual enough to early on so it doesn't "scare" her off. You have her attention now.
Quote:
her "hahaha you wish. and never =)"

seems like to me she's trying to make me beg. shit test maybe? idk i could be wrong but i refuse to fall into that trap of digging and begging. whats the best way for me to respond to something like that.
I don't see this as her trying to make you beg... unless you are dead set on her saying the word "yes" which is not necessary. Text does show emotion but given the words that she said and the smiley face make it sound (or read) like she is being playful back.
Quote:
her "hahahahahah you caught me!"
Did you respond to this yet or is there where you are currently at?
nope thats where im currently at but its been like 2 days.

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