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| Author: | prefix [ Fri May 08, 2009 12:43 am ] |
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Tried my first approach today. I was walking in a street near my university and there was a girl walking in the opposite direction, crossing me (Not very hot). I got near her and said: "Excuse me, can I ask your opinion on something? I need a female point of view". By reading her face I noted she was completely terrified, it looked like she thought I was gonna rape her or something. She said something like "No, I'm in a hurry" and walked away very fast, so I just kept going. I felt good after that anyway, a little more confident on myself for having the courage to approach her. But now I'm thinking I will scare other women I try to approach. What might I have done wrong? I was smiling, and I know for sure that I don't look like a criminal. Perhaps I just got to close to her and too quickly. I'd appreciate your advice. Thanks! |
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| Author: | Cock_roach [ Fri May 08, 2009 9:27 am ] |
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Well, if she wasn/t very hot, maybe she has little experience with males, and is scared of them. If you see a girl that is scared, I would concentrate of loosing the SPAM - say something funny, make her laugh, so she isn't so strained. It sometimes happen the girls are incapable of talking to guys. Just make the next try, the next target should react more positively. But such things comes within time, the most important step has been done by you - the approach to stranger woman. You are on a good way, buddy |
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Fri May 08, 2009 9:52 am ] |
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Could be a body language thing, when doing day game I like to rock/lean backwards after I have their attention. But yeah most women seem scared to begin with, its something you can play on ("wow, you look terrified hehhee anyways .... ") |
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| Author: | David~ [ Fri May 08, 2009 10:23 am ] |
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Women like that are not normal. They are usually very compliant when you ask opinion openers. You may have come off threatening. It goes both ways. Make sure you are relaxed, confident, and talk slow. Throw in smirks. Lean back when you talk, like you're ready to take away. Don't let this discourage, it's really fun daygame sarging. |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Fri May 08, 2009 1:35 pm ] |
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Stop thinking about this and asking yourself questions for answers you don't need. Just get out there. At this point for you, the point is to get out there and meet a lot of people. Through that process, you're confidence level will rise naturally. In regards to your walk away girl. . . Who cares? Maybe she had to run to the toilet because she had diarrhea? Maybe she already popped a few squirts on her panties already? Maybe she was menstruating and felt a leak? And maybe she's just socially inept. You seem to have recognize her urgency. With girls like this, you don't need to continue with her nor do you need to vilify her. You just go, "hmm, well I sure hope they stocked the ladies room with TP this morning . . ." And keep going. |
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| Author: | Killians [ Fri May 08, 2009 2:28 pm ] |
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Most females you approach during the day have a place they need to be. They are running to the store or hair appointment. So she really could have been "in a hurry". Also, its not everyday that someone gets approached by a guy asking for their opinion, which could explain why she had a weird look. Continue what you are doing...if you still get the same result...re-evaluate your body language. |
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