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Author:  supered [ Thu May 07, 2009 1:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Busting a strange girl's boyfriend

OK. I've busted a bf once before but this girl is pretty different, so I need some advice.

Situation: Her and the bf have been together for 3 years. She's 23 and he's 28 (I'm 22). I had a mutual friend talk to her about it and what she told him is that at first she thought the bf was a stalker but after 6 months she gave him a chance and they've been together since (she wouldn't say what made her changer her mind). When asked what she likes about him she said "he's just got the best outlook on life, he's never sad, etc. etc."

Now she's a different kind of girl then I'm used to dealing with. Most girls don't give guys they think are stalkers a chance after half a year. Also, she's a HB8 but she's very smart and acts very dorky (two of the things I like about her). Lastly her bf is coming to see her in two weeks and the chances are I'll meet him. If this was hopeless I wouldn't be asking about it but I've gotten good IOIs and I have an edge in that I am much better looking than her bf (thank you facebook).

Now I'm familiar with the traditional boyfriend busting formula but for such a special case I think it may need some tweaking and was hoping I could get some opinions.

Author:  SiNfUl [ Thu May 07, 2009 1:54 pm ]
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Personally, I do not bother with women that are in a relationship, of any type….way to much trouble.

Not only do you have to seduce her, but you also need to make sure that HE (or any of his friends) does not get suspicious. And let’s not forget her friends because you aren't just dealing with her, she will go to them for advice IF feelings start to develop (here comes the drama).

Single women have much less baggage to deal with, at least initially.

Author:  supered [ Fri May 08, 2009 12:19 am ]
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I agree it is more work and if it was just looking for sex I'd move on but I'm interested in a relationship and she's got something worth a little extra work for. I've gamed a lot of girls and often times I charm them but feel I get mostly nothing back (besides the physical), I make the fun. This girl is different in that while I'm still fun, she makes it twice as fun. It's not a one-itis thing as I'm still gaming other girls but it is something I'm prepared to do a little extra work on.

And I've dealt with bf busting before. It was a 2 year relationship but obviously I made her happier. We were together until I moved to Australia.

As for this, he is normally very far away, he is just visiting for a week so there is not much worry there. And I'm friends with all of her friends (that is how I met her) and they all think I'm great so I don't worry about that either. I'm just playing it like I usually would any girl and receiving good feedback, but she acts differently from most girls I game and I was looking to see if there is any advice as I continue the process? Thanks for your post.

Author:  SiNfUl [ Fri May 08, 2009 1:57 pm ]
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Interesting. If you are getting good feedback, keep doing what works...just remember to escalate if you want to make progress. Good Luck.

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