Oh snap!
Well... how is your own confidence level, because a female with no confidence/self-esteem is a turn off.
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| Author: | Angelina [ Wed May 06, 2009 2:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | advice for a lady |
Hi guys, I don't know if it is possible to become a female PUA, but I need some advice on how to be more attractive to men. I'm usually attracted (as all women) to high value men. Since I'm not a super HB I have a lot of competence from other girls. I would say I'm a 7 or 8, I'm an average girl I guess. Some people tell me I'm pretty. My body is thin, nothing extraordinary, I need more excersise, I know. I don't have enough money to spend on clothes, make up and hair styles. I'm smart and I understand the Pua's game (a friend who is a player introduced me to all of this) and I want to be able to do the same, to pick up the guys I like, and not wait for a boring guy to come and pick me up. I want to learn from you guys. |
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| Author: | Daishi [ Wed May 06, 2009 2:56 am ] |
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Oh snap! Well... how is your own confidence level, because a female with no confidence/self-esteem is a turn off. |
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| Author: | ninjah [ Wed May 06, 2009 3:01 am ] |
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in my opinion. I wouldn't think it would be that much different cause your female. maybe one difference would be, approaching a guy that's with his friends will have the opposite effect. guys would love you for that. |
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| Author: | Jokerex [ Wed May 06, 2009 4:19 am ] |
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this is interesting. You want to be more attractive. Build yourself up. You don't need expensive clothing or make up to be more attractive. Ask guys in here, you don't need money to impress woman. Same thing goes to you. The guys in here tell us, shape up, start running, cut that ugly moustache off, Its the little things that will bring you out. I aint saying anything about you cause i havent seen you or know you to judge so dont take this as a rude thing lol. Go out and see what other woman are wearing and how they do there make up and imitate that. You might have to change your outlook and appearance, ive done the same. I used to wear bagging jeans none fitted shirt, and now i wear slim jeans with a nice slim shirt (not to tite lol) but hell and changed my hairstyle and girls notice . its unreal. you might have to do the same!! Just change a few things with yourself. Hell show some cleavage ..... ( but dont label yourself as a slut!) Thought i'd give you my 2 cents Jokerex |
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| Author: | Smarts [ Wed May 06, 2009 4:40 am ] |
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Peacock a little. Show some skin, maybe wear something that shows some skin; but not too much. Also just be very funny/smiley. When you go out try to smile a lot and open your body to where most people are in the room. More people can see you that way and if your smiling you will look much more approachable. That being said, don't stand in the corner of the room looking out where everyone else is with puppy-dog eyes. Do NOT cross your arms, it shows your not having a good time and you might be upset or something. Like I said before you want to be as approachable as possible. Also if you see a guy you think is cute, just say something to him casually like "Hey, I love that shirt." or something like that. They might just say "thanks" and care on, but they might talk to you. Good Luck! |
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| Author: | Plays Upfront [ Wed May 06, 2009 6:17 am ] |
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Start with the basics. Good skin Healthy, sweet-smelling hair No unwanted hair No funky smell emitting from your body! Great clothes that look fine on you. Equip yourself with extras, e.g. the art of socializing (ha-hah!) All these basics would lead to confidence, feel gorgeous and sexy. This would reflect off of you and not only guys can see this- but everybody! You're out to have a good time! Wink wink. And now use a little psychology on these testosterone-induced creatures... what guy can't resist a delectable dessert being offered upfront? wooot! |
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| Author: | joker_jack84 [ Wed May 06, 2009 6:29 am ] |
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Take up a cool hobby or develop a skill. Don't be boring which is kind of what you seem like. No offense. Make yourself stand out. |
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| Author: | Giovanni420 [ Wed May 06, 2009 8:20 am ] |
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Play video games!!! ..............or not............ 
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| Author: | joker_jack84 [ Wed May 06, 2009 8:22 am ] |
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Ok video games will make you lamer f*^% giovanni. |
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| Author: | Giovanni420 [ Wed May 06, 2009 8:59 am ] |
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Sorry for the double post moderators!  And I know. Was just kidding.
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Wed May 06, 2009 12:35 pm ] |
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bonita and the other FPUAs will probably be able to help you out the most but I would give you three tips to be more attractive. 1. Be passionate/ambitious. I have literally walked away from women in the past because the conversation goes something like; me- so what are you passionate about hb- I dunno I've got a crappy job but it gets me money as for hobbies and things I can't really be assed at this point i leave. 2. Don't buy into a guys reality. Remember that you are the prize and when talking to guys in the back of your head know (not think) you could get another guy who is probably hotter easily. This said don't outwardly act like you are above a guy he will think you are a bitch and most guys will get bored of it quickly. 3. Be cool. This is crucial, I know women are emotional creatures and guys will say things you don't like usually by accident. So don't flip out or act overly emotional. In short be in control of your emotions. |
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| Author: | KristallNachte [ Wed May 06, 2009 4:03 pm ] |
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really, its the same as male pick up except with more emphasis on looks. |
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| Author: | AaronW [ Wed May 06, 2009 8:51 pm ] |
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dont listen to the BS about looks, its funny to me how many people on these boards jump at the idea there is a girl on the borads with stupid comments just looking for attention, its not like the process was designed to get away from men being needy. the basics boil down, like me, to confidence, you approach a man, and boom you already have their attention, they are not used to it. you can approach directly or indirectly your choice, be able to dish out some negs and take some negs, if its a man with high value and thinks he can get any girl, you have to drop him on his pedestal, make him think you are not concerned with his looks, money or what have you. Build that confidence, become playfully feisty and enjoy yourself, dont worry about the outcome be more concerned with the situation and experience. |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Wed May 06, 2009 10:09 pm ] |
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Ha ha! D.C. You beat me to it! I was just about to comment on that almost every time one of the female members post something it gets sooo many replies. Most often from members with fairly few posts. (Ok FPUAs, not saying that your posts are not good, just finding this extremely interesting.) I apologize in advance for offending anyone and sounding arrogant, this is written out of real interest. I am sure you guys and girls are great! This turns into a lesson in pickup and inner game. Jaybot and Kristallnachte gave some good advice on this one, solid real advice, actually trying to help. All posts are appreciated of course... Still it amazes me how many newbies there are that jump at the chance of writing/helping a lady in need. Is this because of different experience levels, that the more experienced PUAs have options, is this just preselection and willingness to walk away vs conveying interest at work? More options and we dont need to take every chance. I remember posting with a headline reading "I am a girl". The post was about that I started thinking like a girl after learning PU techniques but I was amazed at the amount of people that had read the post. Not many replies but many many reads. Are we so desperate for female attention that we automatically rate female posts higher than male ones? Ok, I grant you, Zip and Bonita have great posts from a female perspective and that in itself has value. "I need a female opinion on something."  I even remember someone writing in a post to Bonita or Zip (sorry dont remember who) that they should date someone of us here at the forum because of blah blah whatever the thread was about. Very interesting how people subconsciously make a male/female difference even in the forum itself. Sorry to turn your question into a psychological brainstorm... To give you some advice at least. I like a challenge, a girl who play well earn my respect and becomes interesting to me. A girl who has selfrespect without an inflated ego is also interesting. A girl with great conversational skills, storytelling skills is also interesting. And yes, a girl could be a PUA! Good luck! Ezo |
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| Author: | KristallNachte [ Wed May 06, 2009 11:00 pm ] |
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i just remembered Zip's blog post about The Rules. @OP, if you want a good book that goes over FPUA tactics, get The Rules (its the essential equivalent to The Game). But most of the information is the same, especially since a big part of pick-up if making yourself into who you want to be. |
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