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| Author: | Art Vandelay [ Sun May 03, 2009 7:36 pm ] |
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Okay so I have read a good deal on pick up, but I am beginning to develop my own theory about the development of women. We all know the basics about what some of the gurus like Mystery believe to be the key things in attracting women: (1) Leader of men, (2) Pre-selected by Women, (3) Willingness to emote and (4) protector of loved ones, and I would agree with this in principal but after spending my Freshmen year in college I feel there is some major flaws with this as far as younger women are concerned. My time so far in college has led me to believe that at a young age (between 18-20) most girls are not looking for the above mentioned traits, but from what I can tell two main things. First: He is socially acceptable, and second: he is good looking. I know the looks part slaps much PUA material in the face but it seems that almost all really attractive girls (at my large public university) I know are not hooking up with guys that are going to be “potential long term mates”, but rather “that good looking guy.” At the beginning of the year it boggled my mind how one of the most attractive girls I’ve ever seen (who also was very intelligent academically) could be interested in a kid with very little going for him in terms of really anything except his looks (not a good personality, no money, terrible academics, and not accepted by most of his “guy friends”) After witnessing attractive girls like this for several months, and having little success using “game”, I began to feel like PUA material was either no good or I was just not using it correctly, but then I started trying to game girls a couple of years older than me. To be totally honest I have had more success using routines on these girls 2-3 years older than me because it is my belief that as college goes on girls begin to change their views on what they want, and this lends itself to helping PUA’s material like DHVs, and routines. As a girl begins to develop throughout college she will begin to change her view of what she finds attractive. Instead of the “good looking party guy” that she once liked, it turns out to be the guy that is willing to emote, takes charge of his and others lives, and has good prospects as they are about to leave the college world i.e. successful in school or business. This is why many younger women will marry older men--- because they have all of these things already. Now this is just my theory but if you stop and think about it, I feel like it really makes sense. This is the time in a young girl’s life when she is finally free from her parents and wants to get out there and have fun, but it doesn’t take long until she wants different things. I would love to get some feedback from anyone on their thoughts on this theory, and I know that my small sample size of one university may be a problem, but I would love to hear what you think, especially if there is a girl out there who has any thoughts on this? |
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| Author: | expat_of_love [ Sun May 03, 2009 9:43 pm ] |
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Depends where you go. I do know that in Poland and Ukraine the average girl gets married at around 22 years of age. The average male in those places usually gets married at around 26 unless he is foreign (in that case you can try 46  ).As far as America goes, I don't believe that American females are capable of having a real relationship. The over 50% divorce ratio kinda proves that point. |
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| Author: | SirKonstantine [ Sun May 03, 2009 11:44 pm ] |
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For college game, you should read Conquer Your Campus. You cant use canned "normal" scripted game in college. Its more about social proof and being the fun guy. Your idea of attraction is based off of classic Mystery Method, but I think RSD explains attraction in a way that is more universal. A=HV+E http://alexattitude.com/?p=95 |
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| Author: | octapussylicker [ Mon May 04, 2009 12:53 am ] |
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well with younger women they aren't really sure what they want. When they first start liking guys they want a relationship etc. then when the guy screws them over, they break up etc. they got over the wanting of a relationship and don't care so much, don't mind being single and are probably just looking to have a good time. But thats the HBs who aren't shy and who have had a relationship previously. The shy girls or ones who haven't gotten anything are real easy in college, but if they aren't a HB its a no go zone if you don't want a good record. Also Some of these pick-up techniques wouldn't work on younger girls as they can't exactly comprehend some of the ideas. For younger chicks I've found you just have to be able to talk to them confidently as a friend and then they become attracted to you, its the regular contact and the fact that they feel so comfortable around you is one facetor that makes them more attracted to you, especially if they don't like you for looks....but thats more the underage girls |
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