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Author:  omegafire [ Sat May 02, 2009 8:31 pm ]
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Hey what's up guys



I was wondering if game is different for good looking guys (talking model looks), can they throw more compliments around (girl would be very happy), and less negs ( girl would probably get pissed off fast)
Author:  expat_of_love [ Sat May 02, 2009 9:57 pm ]
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As a male who does modeling I would say that yes the game is easier for me. I am so pretty that nobody can believe that I am straight. That is my problem though. Sounds funny, but there is a certain level of pretty that is only reserved for boys who like other boys. A curse of good genetics. How do I make myself look like the average guy?
Author:  Killians [ Sun May 03, 2009 12:15 am ]
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You can do more direct game. Meaning you could actually get away with walking up to a girl and telling her that you are totally gonna hit on her. However, you have to display the confidence as well.
Author:  SirKonstantine [ Sun May 03, 2009 12:18 am ]
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Ugly guys have to have more game to get a HB then a hot guy. Thats why I think Mehow's game must be SUPER right, because that old, pale, bald guy can pull.
Author:  expat_of_love [ Sun May 03, 2009 1:31 am ]
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Damn, I just thought of something. If I had really tight game I would be totally out of control. :shock: Yeah, my game is more direct. I have often wondered what it must be like to be normal.

I was talking to my younger cousin last week. He wanted to know how he could get a girl to notice him. I had no clue. I mean, it just happens for some of us. Anyway, the two of us were at a store when this one girl from his class walked past us. She looked at me for those few extra seconds that I am so accustomed to. Broke his heart. Being good looking can be hard on the ones that you love.
Author:  DontBeFickle [ Sun May 03, 2009 3:13 am ]
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just to sound a little conceded im with expat of love on this one, probably not AS good looking as he ;).

i think girls get insecure around the really good looking guy because they need makeup and the good looking guy doesnt.

leading to more direct game?, comforting her insecurity that shes not as "pretty" as him?
Author:  Dr. Gruuve [ Sun May 03, 2009 3:24 am ]
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Interesting post. I wouldn't say I have model-like looks...I've never thought that about myself. However, when I go out (especially if I dress a little Goth), drunk women will come up to me and say things like "You're hot", "I'd hurt you", etc. So, I guess that even though I've never thought I'm an incredibly handsome man, apparently a lot of women do. Shit, I'll take it, ya know? :twisted:

However, I seem to fall into the friend zone too easily. I'm a "nice guy" and I need to get past quite a bit of that I think. It seems that more direct (and more aggressive about it) is the direction I need to take myself. I love to tease, so I'm following David DeAngelo's newsletters...cocky/funny seems to fit me pretty well, I've just got to get better at it rather than reverting to AFC-ness during a date, I think.

Gruuve
Author:  MorethanStyle [ Sun May 03, 2009 4:18 am ]
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Being good looking has two major advantages.

1. A lot more girls will open you! So you've already won half the battle.

2. When you do decide to open girls, it will be much easier to have them be interested in you right off the bat.

From there I'd say that good looks can only take you so far. You still have to be able to keep the girl interested and not come off as a meat head, or an asshole. I know I have a friend who has good looks, and hes even made comments to me while we were walking down the boardwalk in ocean city maryland like: "How jealous are you that I could fuck any one of the girls on this boardwalk right now?"

At first I just laughed at him because he is always saying cocky shit like that but then I happened to be behind him and I found out that what he was saying was sooo true. I was probably about 15 feet behind him because I stopped to take a piss and there were 2 absolutely gorgeous chicks HB 10's walking the opposite direction. I over heard them saying, "Did you just see that guy, he is soooo hott!" I'm like WTF, I hate him.

Either rate, I've watched him in the field and he is absolutely amazing at picking up girls with looks alone. He just plays the cocky/funny guy and girls eat it up. He can even get away with being overly cocky because girls just don't seem to care because they can't get passed his looks. So I guess pretty much what I'm trying to say is that, if you have good looks, just don't be a total D-bag and you should have girls falling into your lap on command.

Be interesting, Funny, and smooth and you can have any girl you set your eyes on!

Oh, and the best thing, good looks usually equals no "shit tests", which is also so unfair.
Author:  expat_of_love [ Sun May 03, 2009 5:37 am ]
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Dontbefickle...
Of course you are not as good looking. Stating the obvious is wasting my time. As I tell the ladies, "Time I spend with you is time I could be looking in the mirror." I will give you some love though. You did hit it on the head when you mentioned insecurity. Girls don't want to date a guy who is going to be prettier than they are. My slumps have come from nights when I dressed up and shaved.

Here is a test to see if you are pretty like me. Go to an American Starbucks. If you get your coffee or tea for free you are pretty. As they say, "As rare as a straight man who works at Starbucks." When you are flying in shitty coach and get first class service you also know you are pretty (only job with less straight men than Starbucks is the world of the male stewardess).
Author:  manman [ Sun May 03, 2009 6:40 am ]
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Well, It's very easy for us in some ways. Like 8 or 9 out of 10 girls I approach are smiling and open and receptive. Women hit on US, instead of the other way around. So, no need to really approach. We get away with saying whatever and acting however we want, be it silly, crazy even the minute we approach her, and she enjoys it. But, It's not always greener on the other side. Either we are getting laid like a rock star, or are getting laid as little as a really bad AFC. or not at all. Because of the ego it creates.
Author:  jurupa [ Sun May 03, 2009 9:30 am ]
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Hey what's up guys



I was wondering if game is different for good looking guys (talking model looks), can they throw more compliments around (girl would be very happy), and less negs ( girl would probably get pissed off fast)
I really don't think it is that much different because looks are a physical thing. And unless the girl is all about the physical looks to have eye candy to show off. She is going to want to know what is inside of you. So if you have the pesonality of a cave man you won't do well with girls.
Author:  jurupa [ Sun May 03, 2009 9:35 am ]
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As a male who does modeling I would say that yes the game is easier for me. I am so pretty that nobody can believe that I am straight. That is my problem though. Sounds funny, but there is a certain level of pretty that is only reserved for boys who like other boys. A curse of good genetics. How do I make myself look like the average guy?
Obviously I don't know what you look like, but from what you say I would say you have boyish looks. If this is the case then you may want to go with more rugged looks then. As you will come off as more manly.
Author:  jurupa [ Sun May 03, 2009 9:38 am ]
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Girls don't want to date a guy who is going to be prettier than they are.
True. They also don't want to date a guy that spends a lot of time in front of the mirror either. Tho they do want a guy that maintains him self.
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Here is a test to see if you are pretty like me. Go to an American Starbucks. If you get your coffee or tea for free you are pretty. As they say, "As rare as a straight man who works at Starbucks." When you are flying in shitty coach and get first class service you also know you are pretty (only job with less straight men than Starbucks is the world of the male stewardess).
I don't think that is a good test to see if someone is pretty or not. But what straight guy wants to be pretty anyway? :lol:
Author:  silverito [ Sun May 03, 2009 11:09 pm ]
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As a male who does modeling I would say that yes the game is easier for me. I am so pretty that nobody can believe that I am straight. That is my problem though. Sounds funny, but there is a certain level of pretty that is only reserved for boys who like other boys. A curse of good genetics. How do I make myself look like the average guy?
Imho its not the level of pretty that is reserved for gays, its the pretty + how much do they care of they looks combined.
Since you do modeling I asume you care about your looks a lot.
If you took care of yourself no more than average joe (no "girly" things, no "super stylish clothes" etc etc) you could look more like an average guy.
Author:  Killians [ Sun May 03, 2009 11:20 pm ]
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Dontbefickle...
Of course you are not as good looking. Stating the obvious is wasting my time. As I tell the ladies, "Time I spend with you is time I could be looking in the mirror." I will give you some love though. You did hit it on the head when you mentioned insecurity. Girls don't want to date a guy who is going to be prettier than they are. My slumps have come from nights when I dressed up and shaved.

Here is a test to see if you are pretty like me. Go to an American Starbucks. If you get your coffee or tea for free you are pretty. As they say, "As rare as a straight man who works at Starbucks." When you are flying in shitty coach and get first class service you also know you are pretty (only job with less straight men than Starbucks is the world of the male stewardess).
I doubt it has anything to do with you being prettier than them....if anything its you being an arrogant conceded little bitch
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