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Author:  paladien [ Fri May 01, 2009 11:24 am ]
Post subject:  i set up a date, now what
hello everybody

I set up a date with a hb7 this monday
she is on vacation now, i dont know where, for a week with her parents.
I have not let her hear anything from me, and there is no time or place set for the date. We just both agreed to meet next monday thats all.

So i was thinking, i want to escalate and i figured maybe i need to pre-heat the oven.
I have got her number, she has got mine but i havent checked my cellphone cuz she has still got my old number. ( i dont know if she has sent me anything, i think she has not though)

What should i text her ? something like hey how are you doing ? are you having a great time over there ?
it feels so unoriginal and im clueless to what i should text her

i could also send her, hi there, do you wanna have sex this monday ?
but i think that would definitely ruin my chances of having sex ..


Background info about the girl:
she is this LSE chick, id rate her hb7.5
she hates her family, she listens to really death metal like hardrock music
she is weird ..
she draws a lot
she is shy
she is different
but i would definitely want to escalate with her


I have known her for 1.5 years now, she is part of a group of girls who all like me but she was the shy one who i thought did not like me ..
i havent been in touch with them tho i know 2 of them were really loving me
even now they say how cute i am still so thats dhv
but when im alone with her, i dont know what to do
she is weird and different also i think i need to show more initiative but you guys have got to help me on that. like what should i text her and how should i set up the date furthermore.
I have been on a "date" with her before but it was not that spectacular. she is so unexperienced with guys .. and she gets really weird which was kind of a turn off
but i still wanna do her

I am also not really experienced with girls, girls tend to like me but i dont know how to escalate
girls think im shy aswell which is a little bit true

I basically need help on warming her up for monday, show more initiative but i dont know how to do that.
i would appreciate help a lot :)
Author:  Zikki [ Fri May 01, 2009 11:48 am ]
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to show sexual intent and describe sexual desire u need to be touching her, holding her, being playful and generally showing u want to fuck her!!!

I watched one of my friends fail to even number close yest because as he went to touch her leg he bailed and kept his hand on the chair to the side of her, no physical contact = no sexual interest = no sex + no close

People seem to think just because u talk to a girl she will naturally think u want to have sex with her, ok thats a good assumption but then women can tell the difference between sum sleeze looking for an easy lay and sum1 who just know how to carry himself and enjoy casual sex.

I think if ur gunna txt her u need to escalate via txt, my mate had a guaranteed shag coming on friday, she on weds she txts him telling him that "im laying in bed smoking a ciggarrette", his response was going to be "im just round my mates house watching a film"... he missed the main intention of her txt, she was trying to build a bit of sexual tension. If a girl brings up bed into a convo its an open invite to sexually escalate. I told him to text "im laying in bed to wish u were here sharing a cigarette with me", from then the inuendos increased, the sexual frame had been applied and for 2 days all she would be thinking bout is coming for a fuck. Now imagine if I hadnt helped him build sum sexual tension before she arived, she would of got there, sat for an hour, talked, bonded, cuddled all that crap before they even got to sex. But thanks to my tip, she turned up, got to work on my mate and then left after... he didnt have to waste his in person time because he had pre conditioned sex into the date by building the tension.

If ur not showing sexual desire, what chance have u got of a shy girl ever reacting to it. You sound as bad as eachother. I wud just make a move and see what happens. Maybe go the gunwitch root and keep pushing for it until she tells u to fuck off lol

Im one for not even bothering with niceties on the phone. Im straight up, come round mine tonight kinda guy. I would rather let me intent be known, shes given me her number because she has prejudged what I would want from this, so I start to chase it.
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