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| Author: | spacka [ Tue Apr 28, 2009 2:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | my life dialemma |
im going to start by saying i dont know what i expect to achieve from this post, but im hopeful. if anybody can be bothered to read the post i appreciate it. first off, my only experience with this kind of "scene' is that ive read 'The Game' by Neil Strauss. i have a feeling this might be a common occurance for newbies joining this community, but let me also stress that i'm 21 and pretty confident. ive never had massive trouble with getting girls and i'd never feel like i have to use any of the PUA techniques and methods. i did, however, love The Game by Neil Strauss simply because i could relate to it anyway. like being cocky and funny is kind of my thing in general anyway. I think a lot about reading people and mind games and shit like that, and the book pretty much just gave names for these kinds of things. a lot of it i was already subconsciously doing anyway. anyway, my dialemma: basically i had a girlfriend and we were in love very much. theres simply too many things to describe about the way we were with each other. we were just deeply in love. however, a reason for this i think is because she was the kind of girl who wasnt afraid to challenge me. i'm always sort of taking the piss and winding people up and my humour is very dry and we aregued lots and lots, but a lot of the time it was just our banter, yet sometimes it got out of hand. thats just the way we were. however, we were both very stubborn and we'd even fall out and not speak to each other for days, even though we wre still classed as "together". also, our arguments could get pretty public in front of friends etc, and this among lots of other reasons (although none i class as valid) led to my girlfriend deciding that we argue too much and we're best off apart because we make each other feel like shit a lot of the time. i realise that i definitely fucked things up and because she was also my frist girlfirend i didnt know better. however, i know that we never fell out of love, and she knows it. she just (admittedly) "switched her feelings off" because she thought it was the best and i, typically, realised what i was losing, however she never gave me the chance to prove i'd change. and as cliche as this sounds, i did change, i just never got the chance to show. anyway, she went travelling for 4 months with her sister and a couple of friends and now she's back, but personally i know she's used those 4 months to convince herself that she was right to end it. we havent really spoke but i know something is still there. even though she is apparently "going with" someone else. but im not an idiot and if you knew the story you'd agree that im not just clouded into thinking she still loves me when she doesnt. i know she does. however, my main question is: if youve been in love with and had a relationship with someone, can you win them back with PUA techniques even if youve not used them on said partner before? i.e can i start a fresh with my ex and try and get her back? |
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| Author: | spacka [ Wed Apr 29, 2009 6:08 am ] |
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is this in the wrong section? |
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