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Author:  onato123 [ Tue Apr 28, 2009 10:49 am ]
Post subject:  Getting The Women You Actually Want

Here's a brief bit of my background. I've been in the PUA Game on and off for about 4 years with varying degrees off success. I've read a few of the main stream books but never delved to deep into the tape packs or the courses/boot camps people offered.

I was at a stage with my 'Game' where I could happily go out and basically pick up multiple women, attractive women and I was satisfied. The problem I seem to be having now is to attract the women that I actually want. I'm becoming more fussy and not just settling for the first girl to give me a seductive look.

What should I do differently? I can get any girl I don't won't but none of the girls I REALLY WANT.

Any help will be appreciated.

Author:  Don_k [ Tue Apr 28, 2009 3:47 pm ]
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I have the exact same problem. And i start to behave as an AFC with the girls that i want to be with.

I know the reason i behave as an AFC with them is cos i am scared that i will ruin my chances with them. I guess u might be doing the same thing as me.

The solution would be not to care and behave as if they were like any other girl. I know its easy to say but i am finding it hard to put on practise :)

gdluck bro

Author:  Country Boy [ Wed Apr 29, 2009 2:20 am ]
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What kind of girls are you getting? What kind of girls do you want?

Perhaps, you are getting the girls you don't want because you are running some sort of NEG, lower their value, disinterest game. It works because you really don't want them. It is congruent. To truly get the ones that you want, you should probably run a more positve game. Let her know that you want her, why you want her, and what you want to do about it.

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