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Author:  DontBeFickle [ Tue Apr 28, 2009 1:56 am ]
Post subject:  popular girl intimidated?

went to a party on the weekend, deck out.
no beer in hand, white slipper-like shoes, black pea coat, white calvin klein dress shirt, sick old-man gold and silver, surfer like necklace, watch and huge bed head hair.

all night i was getting checked out and complimented from girls all night,especially about my hair. but later on this popular girl came up to me. she always KNEW me as sort of a loser

-"dontbefickle, what happened to your hair?"
-"huh?"
-"what happened to your hair?"
-"just rolled out of bed"
-"well it looks good" (very sarcastic)
-" haha....cool" i knew she was being sarcastic so i just turned away after.

so why in the hell would she come up to me just to try to make fun of me?
if she was makin fun of me for sport she did a good job, i thought about that comment on and off for the rest of the night. DAMN INNER GAME
was this her pick up attempt?

btw the only way i would plow her would be if i could nut on her face, i hate this girl.

Author:  Don_k [ Tue Apr 28, 2009 2:19 am ]
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I dont think she was hitting on you. But damn man, u should hav thrown a neg her way atleast. And inner game, ya work on that. Just try to ignore the the things that u dont want to listen. :)

Don_k

Author:  Jaybot [ Tue Apr 28, 2009 2:43 am ]
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hehehe I have a girl like this near me and to be honest she fucking fascinates me. She isn't that attractive and I realise she is playing hard to get and yet I am captivated.

But yar there is a league of women that do this, then when you try to hit on her she will throw shit test after shit test on you. I think I had to get by a good 5 shit tests before she would connect. even then I think it had more to do with me doing things on my terms and having her follow. Best advice I can give is if you want to game her be brushed up on how to deal with shit tests and don't buy into her reality.

Author:  callmecaptain [ Tue Apr 28, 2009 8:09 am ]
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Her: "dontbefickle, what happened to your hair?"

You: "huh?"

Her: "what happened to your hair?"

You: (Cocky smile like you just got done boning her sister) "That's none of your damn business" (then turn away and block her out before she can even respond)

I'm not 100% sure why she said this, but i do have a hypothesis. Some girls are really aggressive and that's their way of shit testing you before they lay you. I guess you could think of it as a congruency test. She knows you as a dork or whatever and sees you acting and dressing like a confident dude, so she throws a shit test your way to see if you actually have changed or if you're just faking it.

You could be a few lines away from actually busting that nut on her face
:O <----that's her face

There's something captivating about girls you just hate. There was this girl I just couldn't stand last semester because she was such a bitch. I made fun of her for a while this semester, negged her, and just made her friends percieve me as high social value by pulling the cocky funny card (i'm in college btw). She ended up letting her bitch shield down and actually turned out to be a pretty cool girl. Even number closed her Hah!


You got it dude.

CPT

Author:  swish11 [ Tue Apr 28, 2009 9:55 pm ]
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Dude, seriously? Of course that was her way of picking up. If she KNEW you were a loser than why the fuck would she go out of her way to give you a compliment. If a chick walks up to and says something before you do take it as a compliment and run with it.

Her: "what happened to your hair?"
You: Shrug you shoulders, quirky smile "Sorry, I was up all night with a girl who looked exactly like you."

That should at least get a response from her, don't get too serious because you don't want her to leave and if she doesn't know what to say have something quick to open her mind.

"I was teasing, I was just thinking about it."

If she's not interested than maybe it was just a diss, get into a routine, throw a couple lines out there and tell her you'll get her number so you can meet up later. Get out as quickly as possible but don't be tense to leave, let her know your interested.

Author:  DontBeFickle [ Wed Apr 29, 2009 3:29 pm ]
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haha i love swishes response.

but yeah i have to realise this shit. i was in my head all night sorta thing.... over thinking per say. so i just faceplanted.

thanks everyone for the help.

Author:  OGloc [ Fri May 22, 2009 3:39 pm ]
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Reverse gamed you. Sounds like she threw you a neg, to get you to validate yourself. If other girls had been paying you attention, it sounds like she has come over to find out what she was missing out on and if in fact she was missing out on something. Unfortunately it doesn't sound like you gave her the chance to find out.

But it's all very well coming up with the answers in hindsight! At least you know for next time :lol:

Author:  expat_of_love [ Sat May 23, 2009 8:54 am ]
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I have the opposite problem. I am so attractive that girls are actually afraid to talk to me. When they do they blush and even stutter a bit. I can't be the only one who faces this challenge. I actually have to talk girls into believing that I am interested in them. Then when they do believe me they immediately hide me from their friends.

Author:  Korruptx [ Sat May 23, 2009 9:15 am ]
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I have the opposite problem. I am so attractive that girls are actually afraid to talk to me. When they do they blush and even stutter a bit. I can't be the only one who faces this challenge. I actually have to talk girls into believing that I am interested in them. Then when they do believe me they immediately hide me from their friends.
Yeah...... bet that happens *sarcasm*

Your a dick

Author:  *olie* [ Sat May 23, 2009 9:08 pm ]
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haha i love swishes response.

but yeah i have to realise this shit. i was in my head all night sorta thing.... over thinking per say. so i just faceplanted.

thanks everyone for the help.
i genrally feel that way where i cant get something out of my head when i feel i havent tried hard enough or jsut missed an oppertunity. dont worry about it we all have that sometimes youll get over it.

Author:  *olie* [ Sat May 23, 2009 9:09 pm ]
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Quote:
Quote:
I have the opposite problem. I am so attractive that girls are actually afraid to talk to me. When they do they blush and even stutter a bit. I can't be the only one who faces this challenge. I actually have to talk girls into believing that I am interested in them. Then when they do believe me they immediately hide me from their friends.
Yeah...... bet that happens *sarcasm*

Your a dick
LMAO well said.

Author:  Aprilyapalovera [ Mon May 25, 2009 6:56 pm ]
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Dude, seriously? Of course that was her way of picking up. If she KNEW you were a loser than why the fuck would she go out of her way to give you a compliment. If a chick walks up to and says something before you do take it as a compliment and run with it.

Her: "what happened to your hair?"
You: Shrug you shoulders, quirky smile "Sorry, I was up all night with a girl who looked exactly like you."

That should at least get a response from her, don't get too serious because you don't want her to leave and if she doesn't know what to say have something quick to open her mind.

"I was teasing, I was just thinking about it."

If she's not interested than maybe it was just a diss, get into a routine, throw a couple lines out there and tell her you'll get her number so you can meet up later. Get out as quickly as possible but don't be tense to leave, let her know your interested.
nice strat :)

Author:  Antithesis [ Tue May 26, 2009 2:17 pm ]
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Reverse gamed you. Sounds like she threw you a neg, to get you to validate yourself. If other girls had been paying you attention, it sounds like she has come over to find out what she was missing out on and if in fact she was missing out on something. Unfortunately it doesn't sound like you gave her the chance to find out.

But it's all very well coming up with the answers in hindsight! At least you know for next time :lol:
Exactly. Sounds like she wanted to see what all the fuss was about from the other girls, and when she got to you she neg'd you to test you out. The bad news is you stumbled and she was victorious. But the good news is all the other girls liked how you looked that night and you got their attention. :wink:

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