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| Author: | VcV [ Fri Apr 24, 2009 6:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Mid-game help |
Hi! i'm fairly new to the whole PUA world and i'd like some help. I think i have approaching handled, i can walk up to a woman/group of women and run some openers on them, my problem is after i open. I'm a nerdy guy, and i don't lead such an interesting life that i can use it to build rapport and DHV. Something like this happened just two nights ago: I was at a friend's house and her friends were there. I just sat in a corner shoulders down and said nothing! I can't do that in "the real world"! What should i do while in mid-game? Thanks |
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| Author: | Dr. Ass [ Sun Apr 26, 2009 11:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | easy way |
one of the easiest ways to do it is to just go to a group start a conversation and talk about stuff that is happening in there now, and cool things that have happened in your life. Remember to talk a bit loud, take up some spase and kino the grils. |
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| Author: | VcV [ Wed Apr 29, 2009 5:04 pm ] |
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alright... ill try that (note to self: get a cool life xD) |
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| Author: | OBZ [ Wed Apr 29, 2009 9:11 pm ] |
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Quote: alright... ill try that
Yeah exactly dude. Get a cool life! It's not that hard. Find some kickass dudes to hang out with and are always doing something. I happen to have been lucky enough to have a lot of guys to hang with that always produce interesting stories, and looking back I realized it helped out a lot when I first started out. Girls love it when you have a story for every time you go out. For example there's a HB who has been chasing me ALWAYS asks me, "Zack, what happen this time?! I know you did something so tell me! Pleaseeee." Why do girls like this? Gives them bragging rights. They love it when they can tell other girls they know someone like that.
(note to self: get a cool life xD) |
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| Author: | SirKonstantine [ Wed Apr 29, 2009 10:20 pm ] |
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Find your core values and then express them. That is mid-game. It shows her what you are about. How to find your core values: Imagine you are at your funeral, what are people saying about you? What they are saying is what you want to achieve in your life, your values. My values are adventure, growth, and independence. I communicate this by telling her about my glorious life of being in the military, standup comedy, dumpster diving, or whatever new thing i'm up to. It's also much more congruent then running scripted comfort lines. You also need to qualify her on her personality as well as disqualify yourself from her because of some superficial reason. |
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