PUA Forum :: Whats your own unique style?

I am usually not very chatty and do almost all stages up to rapport through eyecontact and non-verbal things. Whilst escalating kino.

I have recently read into Gamblers style and me and him seem to have got very similar styles and found out similar things through being infield. Bit shit I was reading it like ahh thats another one of my theories that someone has already written about.

My style is similar to what Jaybot said. My attraction building is based heavily on eye contact and kino escalation, I'm confident I can build attraction fairly quickly. My rapport/comfort building however needs some work (main problem is I keep skipping it before closing which is leading to flakes) but generally for comfort when I remember to do it I just tend to find out about them and tell them a little about myself.
If/when I use routines it isn't often, any routines I do use are the game type ones like 5 lies etc or AFC Adam's dancefloor limbo which to be fair I do just about everytime I go out now coz it's so fun haha. I do these games with regular friends aswell though, not just for sarging.

I'd also like to recommend Gamblers "Natural Art Of Seduction", very good book.

Write this down.....

People who want to be unique or different are all overtly fake. Just look around you and you will see what I mean. Peacocking PUA's are only EXTREME examples of this. Peacocking is not being special or unique. It is just dressing up like a gay guy going to the local gay club. Mystery isn't unique. He is Liberace and every single other gay cabaret performer. The whole concept of trying to be unique is wrong.

So remember, in your personal quest to be special you will only end up being something you are not. Trust me, just relax and be ordinary. NOBODY is aiming to be ordinary. In being ordinary you become unique!! In other words, an authentic person is the rarest of creatures. Authenticity has beauty in it. The problem is that you have been told since you were young that you were not good enough by your parents and society. Hence, the reason that American parents put their kids in all sorts of activities. Hence, the reason why kids are forced to play sports after school in America. America can't dal with authenticity. Hell, I have yet to find a place on this earth where most people were real.

Author:	anhpeter [ Wed Apr 22, 2009 12:19 am ]
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This is my first post on this forum, so i'm new the community. I've been reading up on pick up for awhile now. And everything i've read I notice that some of this stuff is just not for me, while others techniques are for me. Everyone is different and have their own way of communicating with people. I know that everyone here, unless or a natural, has incorporated methods from mPUA. That of Mystery, Ross, Angelo, etc. But just because you guys use their style doesn't mean you don't have your own style. So whats your guys own unique style? How do you present yourself to hb's? etc.

Author:	eskwire [ Wed Apr 22, 2009 2:10 am ]
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You should try to meet in person some PUA's in your local community and see what they do.

Author:	Jaybot [ Wed Apr 22, 2009 12:05 pm ]
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I am usually not very chatty and do almost all stages up to rapport through eyecontact and non-verbal things. Whilst escalating kino. I have recently read into Gamblers style and me and him seem to have got very similar styles and found out similar things through being infield. Bit shit I was reading it like ahh thats another one of my theories that someone has already written about.

Author:	anhpeter [ Wed Apr 22, 2009 7:00 pm ]
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Quote: I am usually not very chatty and do almost all stages up to rapport through eyecontact and non-verbal things. Whilst escalating kino. I have recently read into Gamblers style and me and him seem to have got very similar styles and found out similar things through being infield. Bit shit I was reading it like ahh thats another one of my theories that someone has already written about. That way sounds alot of how i am, I really can't go mystery's style, i'll incorporate what i can frm him. I like Ross style, but i'm real interested in Gamblers. You think you can give me some sources about Gamblers style?

Author:	Jaybot [ Wed Apr 22, 2009 7:42 pm ]
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There is the deal on natural art of seduction at the moment (links al over this site), that would be worth checking out. Also you may want to look into gunwitch method again its a no nonsense kinda style and quite natural rather than routine based.

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Author:	Musterion [ Wed Apr 22, 2009 8:22 pm ]
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My style is similar to what Jaybot said. My attraction building is based heavily on eye contact and kino escalation, I'm confident I can build attraction fairly quickly. My rapport/comfort building however needs some work (main problem is I keep skipping it before closing which is leading to flakes) but generally for comfort when I remember to do it I just tend to find out about them and tell them a little about myself. If/when I use routines it isn't often, any routines I do use are the game type ones like 5 lies etc or AFC Adam's dancefloor limbo which to be fair I do just about everytime I go out now coz it's so fun haha. I do these games with regular friends aswell though, not just for sarging. I'd also like to recommend Gamblers "Natural Art Of Seduction", very good book.

Author:	anhpeter [ Wed Apr 22, 2009 10:10 pm ]
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Quote: My style is similar to what Jaybot said. My attraction building is based heavily on eye contact and kino escalation, I'm confident I can build attraction fairly quickly. My rapport/comfort building however needs some work (main problem is I keep skipping it before closing which is leading to flakes) but generally for comfort when I remember to do it I just tend to find out about them and tell them a little about myself. If/when I use routines it isn't often, any routines I do use are the game type ones like 5 lies etc or AFC Adam's dancefloor limbo which to be fair I do just about everytime I go out now coz it's so fun haha. I do these games with regular friends aswell though, not just for sarging. I'd also like to recommend Gamblers "Natural Art Of Seduction", very good book. Yea, i rely alot on my body language (eye contact, positioning, posture, kino, etc). I try to give out the vibe that i'm an Alpha male without the use of words. I recently got into the game maybe just a month or so now. My biggest weakness is talking. I am above average against norms out there, but still my talking skills needs a big improvement. One of my biggest strengths, like you and jaybot, is my body language. At times i feel it's a flaw because at times I give off the impression that i'm better than everyone else. But this is because my mentality is that. When I walk in a place I make sure in my mind that I am the man of this place and everyone else are chumps. So i feel I need to ease off on it a bit. Comfort for me is easy but one thing i need to improve with my comfort is patterning, fluff talking, and routines. I hold a conversation but the conversation is usually based on me asking questions and commenting on their responses, the girl i'm sarging throughout the convo will barely get to know me. One method that really intrigues me is Ross's hypnosis, this is one thing i've been working alot on. I try it on everyone i can get a chance (friends, family, girls, etc) and i've seen alot of good results. For instance, last week my friend had trouble with a girl and as i was talking to him, and without knowing, I was anchoring his words and asking him how he truly felt about her and blah blah. And later during the week he makes a remark to one of my other friends that whenever he thinks about her, he always remembers back to what I told him, which was our conversation about how he felt and the feelings he got whenever he sees her. So if i can do this to one of my friends, imagine a hb. Getting that connection, and anchoring yourself to certain feelings that target is absorbing. I haven't researched anything on Gamblers method but with the information I got from you guys, I think the combination of Gambler and Ross will be amazing.

Author:	Jaybot [ Thu Apr 23, 2009 12:40 am ]
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I decided to try a new style tonight so tried out a couple of mehow's theories on giving value. I can't express how useful this will be when combined with natural-esque style. It is the easiest way to warm an entire room to you, if I wasn't so lazy I would do a diagram of a room and the effect of it. Half the people like you the other half are convinced they should like you and are curious why everyone else likes you. Powerful stuff indeed.

Author:	expat_of_love [ Thu Apr 23, 2009 1:00 am ]
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Write this down..... People who want to be unique or different are all overtly fake. Just look around you and you will see what I mean. Peacocking PUA's are only EXTREME examples of this. Peacocking is not being special or unique. It is just dressing up like a gay guy going to the local gay club. Mystery isn't unique. He is Liberace and every single other gay cabaret performer. The whole concept of trying to be unique is wrong. So remember, in your personal quest to be special you will only end up being something you are not. Trust me, just relax and be ordinary. NOBODY is aiming to be ordinary. In being ordinary you become unique!! In other words, an authentic person is the rarest of creatures. Authenticity has beauty in it. The problem is that you have been told since you were young that you were not good enough by your parents and society. Hence, the reason that American parents put their kids in all sorts of activities. Hence, the reason why kids are forced to play sports after school in America. America can't dal with authenticity. Hell, I have yet to find a place on this earth where most people were real.

Author:	anhpeter [ Thu Apr 23, 2009 5:59 am ]
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Quote: Write this down..... People who want to be unique or different are all overtly fake. Just look around you and you will see what I mean. Peacocking PUA's are only EXTREME examples of this. Peacocking is not being special or unique. It is just dressing up like a gay guy going to the local gay club. Mystery isn't unique. He is Liberace and every single other gay cabaret performer. The whole concept of trying to be unique is wrong. So remember, in your personal quest to be special you will only end up being something you are not. Trust me, just relax and be ordinary. NOBODY is aiming to be ordinary. In being ordinary you become unique!! In other words, an authentic person is the rarest of creatures. Authenticity has beauty in it. The problem is that you have been told since you were young that you were not good enough by your parents and society. Hence, the reason that American parents put their kids in all sorts of activities. Hence, the reason why kids are forced to play sports after school in America. America can't dal with authenticity. Hell, I have yet to find a place on this earth where most people were real. Thanks for quoting something that I already know. This topic was basically based on how you incorporate other pua's techniques to strengthen your own. Like i said, and been saying, everyone is different and will have their own way of expressing themselves in the social world. I'm not researching all of this so i can change who i am, I research all this so i can improve myself.

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