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Author:  TheShoeThatFits [ Fri Apr 17, 2009 6:52 pm ]
Post subject:  The dreaded friend zone!!!

Dun dun dun..... I know I hate the friends zone, I've been caught in it before.. I'm just wondering from some pua's out there what are some tell all signs that youre headed down that path of no return? For instance this HB9.2 wants to go jogging with me... I dunno what to say thats pretty friend ish to me.. what are other signs to look for that an afc like me should watch for.

Author:  fealinlucky [ Fri Apr 17, 2009 7:20 pm ]
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going jogging together is a huge "comfort" thing

she is gonna sweat, not gonna look her best... blah blah blah

yeah thats probably a friends thing... if you were hitting on a girl, would you invite her to go to the gym and spot for you?
nope not a chance

same deal here...

Friend zone can be picked up on pretty quickly when you see or do a lot of comfort building without building attraction and/or seduction to match it.

the best example of this is the best friend that you have spent your whole life with... and after 15 years of being best friends all of the sudden you wanna get her in bed...
touph.. cus she has been in comfort with you for 15 years. and NOW you want to turn the attraction on.

same deal just a bit more extreme.
*Edited for spelling, im a horrible speller, cant we add a spell check like outlook??? HAHA*


does that help?

JMT,
Lucky

Author:  TheShoeThatFits [ Fri Apr 17, 2009 7:35 pm ]
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Thanks man.. yeah that helps me allot. I'm just going to say nay on the whole jog and suggest doing something at night..

Author:  fealinlucky [ Fri Apr 17, 2009 8:42 pm ]
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good call,

also read up on kino and attraction if you havent already... and just kino till she stops you...
dont be the nice guy be the guy thats into her...
sexual frame and the like....make sure she is aware in no uncertain terms that your interested in HER... not jogging with her and being best buds, sharing stories, and recepies.

you have all the comfort your gonna need for a bit, its time to build some attraction/seduction

Lucky

Author:  mike. [ Fri Apr 17, 2009 8:45 pm ]
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just throwing one out there

if she starts talking to you about her boy troubles
or something like that


if she starts talking to you like one of her girlfriends
you in the friend zone

Author:  TheShoeThatFits [ Sat Apr 18, 2009 12:49 am ]
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Cool.. yeah I need to up the kino, any suggested readings?

Oh and to the above poster the only time shes talked about guys was about her xboyfriend and how much happier she is now that shes out of that relationship

Author:  mike. [ Sat Apr 18, 2009 6:07 am ]
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http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Esc ... lo.com.pdf

it helped me alot with kino escalation

Author:  TheShoeThatFits [ Sun Apr 19, 2009 6:41 pm ]
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a little update, I denied the run and instead we went out for drinks and I Kclosed and kino'd all night, high 5's, hand slap game, hair on the shoulder, everything and it worked. Fuck the friends zone

Author:  fealinlucky [ Mon Apr 20, 2009 2:19 pm ]
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Quote:
I denied the run and instead we went out for drinks and I Kclosed and kino'd all night, high 5's, hand slap game, hair on the shoulder, everything and it worked. Fuck the friends zone
Perfect....

Everyone take note... I can gara-damn-tee that you would not have been making out after a 5 mile run

keep us updated on how it goes =)
JMT,
Lucky

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