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| Author: | Mickstyle [ Thu Apr 09, 2009 7:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | The kiss close, shifting gears to F-close and LMR |
I have ran into this problem a few times with girls when hanging out the first time. I invite them over to watch a movie no chairs so my bed is the only place to lay and its damn comfortable bed at that. I make good conversation throughout the movie and use kino escalation to move into kissing. I also change the position im laying in a few times to see if the girl mirrors what im doing with my body to show she is responsive to my body language. After kissing a few times i start to move into some caressing and feeling up.(PS thank god for the girl co worker/girlfriend who trained me to get a bra off with one hand lol) During this stage i take my time with the girl and make sure she is comfortable before going any further. At this point the most common LMR i get is " we just met " "I dont really know you" " i need to be good we just met" what would be the best way to breaj through this ? Freeze out ? These have all been college age girls so im wondering how they would respond to the freeze out. |
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| Author: | fealinlucky [ Thu Apr 09, 2009 8:11 pm ] |
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| Author: | Mystical [ Fri Apr 10, 2009 7:20 am ] |
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My bet is that two things went wrong. First off, you didn't make enough of a connection. Going into sex should feel natural and in no way awkward. So if there was a weird vibe going on when you attempted, odds are that you didn't yet make her comfortable enough around you, at least not enough. Secondly, you need to demonstrate that you aren't the guy who just wants girls for sex. If you are, you need to at least show her that it's not all about sex, that you actually appreciate her presence for who she is. Also, it can be awkward to bring a girl that you barely know to your house for a movie. If this all happens during a first date, you might want to consider changing your first date plans. Bring her out somewhere or invite friends over for the movie. And yeah, when that happens, the best bet is to freeze out. She might be reluctant to contact you after such an awkward situation, so your best bet is not to insist and to show her that you have enough respect to accept her decision. Actually, I feel you on that one man, because a few weeks ago I got LMR from a girl I had known for quite a while. Freeze out, stopped contacting her, and a few months later (this week), she contacted me, asking how things were going and if we were gonna be seeing eachother any time soon. So yeah, for most LMR situations, freeze outs are essential to your survival and future odds. And to prevent such situation, be extra careful when judging if whether or not she's comfortable with you. |
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