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| Author: | arcktik [ Thu Apr 09, 2009 4:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | How do you establish comfort without being friend-zoned? |
I've noticed a reoccurring problem with my pick up. It just seems like if I don't start fully gaming a girl right off the bat, say start nagging her, fooling around with her, touching her or whatever I can't really ever hook up with that particular girl. It just seems like every girl that I game in class or at work always falls into a friend zone, and it suck because those are the girls that I really want. It just seems like I need to establish comfort with these girls and when I do I can't make myself go back to that pickup mode and just start gaming them like I would if I just meet them at a club or whatever. A lot of times it seems really awkward for me to even try because they have already seen me as for who I am. |
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| Author: | xfman [ Thu Apr 09, 2009 2:27 pm ] |
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First you have to create Attraction. The common mistake is creating comfort and trust before attraction, that's why guys end up in the Lets Just Be Friends Zone (LJBFZ). To avoid that, ° Create attraction first ° Use a kino ° Use SOI (Signs of intent) [/list] |
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