props to u witz.
this is a very important thing. like im in HS so i know what works an what doesnt. if anything the only things that are really practical for a high-schooler to take from this community as it stands is inner game stuff. like there are some things that will be ok for us to use, (5 questions games, newbie challenge, etc.), but most DHV type things may not work. from experience, girls in high-school tend to know when a guy isnt themselves. so yeah, like witz said, if a usual nerd or shy guy suddenly becomes the extroverted Alpha, there will usually be some uneasy feelings.
with that said, ive read a good bit of material on this site, and much of it ive filtered down so that it can be applied in my own social environment. i dont want to get all into this because well i only do what works for me. unlike some club environments, the high-school scene REALLY differs depending on where you are. one school might have a school full of HB 8-10's with guys that are pure Naturals, or the school can be full of conservative HB 7-8's and guys who are good guys but relationships arent a big importance.
What i can say is that based on stuff ive seen, there are 3 things to PUA in high school that are different than regular PU.
1) One-itis isnt really a bad thing. yeah there is a limit to how "one" you're focused on, but really. theres a fine balance here, getting too deep into one-itis and you're going to get hurt a lot, and not having some at least some "one-itis" mentality, then it just makes it a lot harder to learn from what works and what doesnt. the notoriety that some guys get for being all over the place with girls isnt something that is easy to live with. Like its not my style to be seen like that as i used to be horrible with women, and i dont want to be seen as a player right away. so unless you're in a group/clique that praises stuff like that, than theres nothing stopping you.
2)Social value, and networking is essential. high-school students tend to be more mean to those who arent seen as "popular" so for the time being its best to build a social network based on your personality. if your into sports meet with a lot of other athletes in the school, you're in the band? find the people who appreaciate the music. with that it means its alot easier to make new friends. Mutual friends are your ticket to meeting people and preventing a huge social downfall.
3) keep it fun. high-school girls tend to not be looking for something totally serious or intensely physical( although i have seen a few of each) keeping PU as fun and just fooling around in school, helps hide the fact that you are trying to be smooth and calculated. yeah yeah i know some people argue how its supposed to be but some guys in high-school are so desperate to get a girl that they just read up on stuff and try to apply it (i know i was like that at first) when you have fun while making these relationships in high-school, they tend to open up even better opportunites leter in life.
This is my thoughts on everything. dissagree or agree, say what you like. this is how i precieve high-school game, and if you think that my preception is totally "wrong" then thats what you think:P tell me what your view is and ill wholeheartdly respect your view as well. This is whats working for me so screw you if you want to insult my way of thinking.
Thats the beauty of PU. its totally different, what works for some, may not work for others. so thanks again witz for bringing this up
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