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Author:  oc82 [ Sun Apr 05, 2009 4:12 pm ]
Post subject:  can't get past the approch..
well i went out with my boy yesterday and None of my wings were available. So I went out with my friend buts hes really not into this.. He just goes to clubs to make out with them and grind them...I know thats just weird....but basic he left me in the club and I tryed to work my game but I really could not do anything... i was like stuck in ice and could not more nor talk... any advice??
Author:  fealinlucky [ Mon Apr 06, 2009 4:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: can't get past the approch..
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well i went out with my boy yesterday and None of my wings were available. So I went out with my friend buts hes really not into this.. He just goes to clubs to make out with them and grind them...I know thats just weird....but basic he left me in the club and I tryed to work my game but I really could not do anything... i was like stuck in ice and could not more nor talk... any advice??
I would say it really sounds like your using a wing as your crutch. Focus on approaching alone, treat it like a sticking point... thats what I would do.

Lucky
Author:  Turnslide [ Mon Apr 06, 2009 5:19 pm ]
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Tomorrow, go downtown and ask random girls if there's any good cafes or restraurents in the area.

This is really just a basic question, no direct opener or anything, just for you to start approaching girls. The great thing is you can easily escalate the conversation if you like to. ( Best on girls that goes "oh theres blabla its great for blabla and then theres blabla" )

You:"Hey, I'm not really from here, is there any good restraurents in the area?"
Her:"blablabla"
You:"Your not just saying it cause I'm some mysterious stranger you can fool into the most shitty restraurent there is? (Give her a smirk whatever)You do seem a little evil"

Just have fun doing it. The chances of you experiencing a crash & burn just by asking about the area is like zero and you can field test some new stuff if you want
Author:  Mr E [ Mon Apr 06, 2009 5:49 pm ]
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Hi,
yeah dude I am in the same spot. I can talk and what have you and make nice pleasantries but the sticking point for me is getting more physical... I have only been at it for a couple of months and in that time I have only been out 4 Saturdays and have learned loads. Now it is time for me to step up the action.


My plan of attack is as follows.
Escalate kino each time the babe and I have a little giggle together. Finally putting my arms around her waist.
Then asking the question. hey, do you know you can burn 20 calories each time you kiss? and move in or the killl.... :twisted:
what do you think guys?
Author:  fealinlucky [ Mon Apr 06, 2009 6:36 pm ]
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I would argue Kino more than just when you "share a little giggle"

Gambler has a free youtube on this..

as soon as you start talking... with the back of your hand start making contact...
dont make it wierd.. or odd... just make it natural, watch a bunch of girls or a gay guy interact... imitate that and you will be doing OK in the kino department.
Author:  Rossatron [ Mon Apr 06, 2009 7:00 pm ]
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I got to agree with the above comments.

Out play your boi.

its all about being a arrogant prick but in a funny way.

Be a actor. i sometimes go up to randomes in clubs and go "oh man its you how you doing" total create a conversation with a random like if ur in a uni or collage place its easy to pretend you were in their class.

Who knows it coudl get you some contacts but importantly it gets ur confedence up.

the prob with clubs is its a hostile place. women get hit on all the time there. so if you ever speak to oen they know what ur doign in about 2 seconds. i dont know anyone who speaks to women for no reasion other than getting in there pants.

thats what homies are for.

Peace
Author:  oc82 [ Sun Apr 12, 2009 2:43 pm ]
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Well Ive always been a guy whos very much to my self. I was in the uk doing a bootcamp. I was told by one of my teachers to get a wing cause it will help me on my approch problems..
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