PUA Forum :: TEACH ME TO NEG ONLINE...I FUCKED UP VERY BADLY!!!!

I was sifting through facebook when i came across a pretty profile pic so i thought id send the girl a message...it goes like so:

ME:
better change that profile pic kid...that green vomit thing is not cutting it...ill sent ya some fashion tips for you to use for when you next go shopping...nice earrings though!!

(i thought this was a nice opener)

HER:
lol Oh please
sum any random guy messagin me WHY? kmt

(is her lol a distainful one...if so why?)

ME:
you remind me of my little sis. she goes out in hideous things too...its not too late too save you though!!!!

(tried to disqualify and take the negging up a notch. should you wait for IOI before disqualifying?)

HER:
lol fuck off

(i took this as a shit test attempt to plow/ignore it)

ME:
O.K. I'LL LIE TO YOU...

"wow you look great its amazing how good a £10 outfit looks"...

so do you always go around dressed like a hooker?

HER:
I dont look like a hooker.. get a fucin life you mug ow old r you? LEAVE ME ALONE

ME:
my gosh what a crybaby...I WAS FUCKING WITH YOU KID! CHILLOUT! ITS GONNA BE OK!!!! (sigh)...bye...HAVE A NICE LIFE OR WHATEVER

i knew that i was being harsh with the things i was saying, but i thought the prettier the girl is the harder you neg them.

this girl was a ten+.

is it because negs have a playful context that cant be conveyed online that this backfired?

how can you neg online when the text doesnt have a tone and you cant see the girls face or body to calibrate?

or do girls believe face book is a private space for them and there friends?(even though that isnt true!)

i was trying to use a combination of cocky comedy and negs.

i can do these things face to face quite well so why does it backfire online.

or does it only work on dating sites?

does anyone have any examples of material working on facebook when they dont already know the girl!

like an online party crash or cold approach.

she was a 10+ and looked very high maintenance.

her profile said single.

specific solutions please feel free to rip me apart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Author:	KALOPSIA [ Thu Apr 02, 2009 7:10 pm ]
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I was sifting through facebook when i came across a pretty profile pic so i thought id send the girl a message...it goes like so: ME: better change that profile pic kid...that green vomit thing is not cutting it...ill sent ya some fashion tips for you to use for when you next go shopping...nice earrings though!! (i thought this was a nice opener) HER: lol Oh please sum any random guy messagin me WHY? kmt (is her lol a distainful one...if so why?) ME: you remind me of my little sis. she goes out in hideous things too...its not too late too save you though!!!! (tried to disqualify and take the negging up a notch. should you wait for IOI before disqualifying?) HER: lol fuck off (i took this as a shit test attempt to plow/ignore it) ME: O.K. I'LL LIE TO YOU... "wow you look great its amazing how good a £10 outfit looks"... so do you always go around dressed like a hooker? HER: I dont look like a hooker.. get a fucin life you mug ow old r you? LEAVE ME ALONE ME: my gosh what a crybaby...I WAS FUCKING WITH YOU KID! CHILLOUT! ITS GONNA BE OK!!!! (sigh)...bye...HAVE A NICE LIFE OR WHATEVER i knew that i was being harsh with the things i was saying, but i thought the prettier the girl is the harder you neg them. this girl was a ten+. is it because negs have a playful context that cant be conveyed online that this backfired? how can you neg online when the text doesnt have a tone and you cant see the girls face or body to calibrate? or do girls believe face book is a private space for them and there friends?(even though that isnt true!) i was trying to use a combination of cocky comedy and negs. i can do these things face to face quite well so why does it backfire online. or does it only work on dating sites? does anyone have any examples of material working on facebook when they dont already know the girl! like an online party crash or cold approach. she was a 10+ and looked very high maintenance. her profile said single. specific solutions please feel free to rip me apart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Author:	johncyz [ Thu Apr 02, 2009 7:38 pm ]
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Quote: I was sifting through facebook when i came across a pretty profile pic so i thought id send the girl a message...it goes like so: ME: better change that profile pic kid...that green vomit thing is not cutting it...ill sent ya some fashion tips for you to use for when you next go shopping...nice earrings though!! (i thought this was a nice opener) HER: lol Oh please sum any random guy messagin me WHY? kmt (is her lol a distainful one...if so why?) ME: you remind me of my little sis. she goes out in hideous things too...its not too late too save you though!!!! (tried to disqualify and take the negging up a notch. should you wait for IOI before disqualifying?) HER: lol fuck off (i took this as a shit test attempt to plow/ignore it) ME: O.K. I'LL LIE TO YOU... "wow you look great its amazing how good a £10 outfit looks"... so do you always go around dressed like a hooker? HER: I dont look like a hooker.. get a fucin life you mug ow old r you? LEAVE ME ALONE ME: my gosh what a crybaby...I WAS FUCKING WITH YOU KID! CHILLOUT! ITS GONNA BE OK!!!! (sigh)...bye...HAVE A NICE LIFE OR WHATEVER i knew that i was being harsh with the things i was saying, but i thought the prettier the girl is the harder you neg them. this girl was a ten+. is it because negs have a playful context that cant be conveyed online that this backfired? how can you neg online when the text doesnt have a tone and you cant see the girls face or body to calibrate? or do girls believe face book is a private space for them and there friends?(even though that isnt true!) i was trying to use a combination of cocky comedy and negs. i can do these things face to face quite well so why does it backfire online. or does it only work on dating sites? does anyone have any examples of material working on facebook when they dont already know the girl! like an online party crash or cold approach. she was a 10+ and looked very high maintenance. her profile said single. specific solutions please feel free to rip me apart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Dude...you were WAY too harsh. You don't necessarily get that mean...you just hit her with more negs...but softer things like "Oh that shirt's interesting...did you buy it at walmart?" or something like that...you don't say her shirt looks like puke, and that she appears to be a hooker.

Author:	Chino Kapone [ Thu Apr 02, 2009 7:48 pm ]
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Learn this right now. One neg is more than enough. When she messaged back, you drop the thread and move forward. Quit talking about her lame profile picture, because you came off like a total asshole. You were just picking her apart to make yourself feel better. Lame. The reason why negs don't work as well online is because of context and tonality. Not only does what you say matter, but how you say it. You cannot showcase tonality online. If you must neg, make sure there is a better compliment in there.... Neg, then cut that thread. Ask your patented Mystery Method opinion opene or DHV or whatever. Just move forward.... Dont sit there and keep negging because you looked like a little kid. CK

Author:	Jav [ Thu Apr 02, 2009 8:55 pm ]
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Lmao, you made my day.

Author:	SciPhy [ Thu Apr 02, 2009 9:42 pm ]
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HAHAHA! That was terrible! Yeah, you were way too harsh with the first neg. It seemed like you put too much thought into it. It was an INSULT, and worse you acted like an insecure nerd child who gets his rocks off by bother girls he could never get via the interwebs. next time try one neg, and build rapport and DHV after that.

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Author:	Majishan [ Thu Apr 02, 2009 10:19 pm ]
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that was pretty bad from the start.. but if you think about it.. you could've retrieved yourself.. from the second neg.. it looked like she was still in the conversation.. but damn!!!! you wouldn't stop!!! need to work on your negs.. and after that.. stop using them!!!!

Author:	ponche92 [ Fri Apr 03, 2009 1:19 am ]
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im with everyone else with this. yeah the first few negs may have still been able to get you somewhere but when u made that hooker comment, you crossed the line. from my experience, girls hate it when you refer to them as some kind of hooker. like really. do you think a girl would like someone who constantly insults her fashion sense and then calls her a hooker? ok maybe it will work in some cases, but over Facebook or myspace may be a lil much so i doubt it negs arent necessarily supposed to lower her value to the point where you can just pick up the pieces. negs are just lil tools to show that you have a sense of humor, while lowering her value a little, and i mean A LITTLE, just enough so she has a reason to qualify for you. this is just what i think, so sorry if something i said doesnt exactly match to how is should be seen. this is just based on my experience and thoughts with negs

Author:	expat_of_love [ Fri Apr 03, 2009 4:28 am ]
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Verbal abuse is just so sexy. It is right up there with wearing makeup and furry hats.

Author:	Luca_J [ Fri Apr 03, 2009 9:03 am ]
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LMFAO! YOU HAVE MADE MY DAY HAHAHAA! THAT WAS HILARIOUS! Little bit too far to say the least hahahaaa...

Author:	KristallNachte [ Fri Apr 03, 2009 3:22 pm ]
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um, easy fix...ADD SMILIES... had you used some smilies, it woudl have conveyed the playfullness

Author:	manman [ Sat Apr 04, 2009 5:00 am ]
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VERY CREEPY. Why are you even negging her? You don't even know her. How about hi, how are you? something normal. And you would be surprised at how many times this can happen when you aren't yourself.IN REAL LIFE.

Author:	Vaguerant [ Sun Apr 05, 2009 9:25 am ]
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Quote: VERY CREEPY. Why are you even negging her? You don't even know her. How about hi, how are you? something normal. And you would be surprised at how many times this can happen when you aren't yourself.IN REAL LIFE. No smilies could save that.

Author:	Vaguerant [ Sun Apr 05, 2009 9:28 am ]
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Quote: VERY CREEPY. Why are you even negging her? You don't even know her. How about hi, how are you? something normal. And you would be surprised at how many times this can happen when you aren't yourself.IN REAL LIFE. No smilies could save that.

Author:	Marvel [ Sun Apr 05, 2009 10:42 am ]
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This is a classic case of "giving dynamite to a kid" example....negs....you are totally misunderstanding them....shoot....anyone have a link to the neg definition/usage page??? I can't seem to find it right now and the explanation is so redundant I don't want to type it all out...will get back to you when I can.... you should consult with jsmooth on this online related topic....he's the online game expert.

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