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Author:  Fiery [ Wed Apr 01, 2009 3:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Friend first or straight into it?
What would be ideal when you first meet someone and you've got attraction:
1) Befriend her first (to generate comfort though can be stuck as friends forever)
2) Ask her out right away and move right in (there's no comfort here?)

Here's my situation:
Met some girl 2 weeks ago through social circle and we were all chilling out and partying. Just today, apparantly her friend told my friend she liked me, but he wasn't supposed to say anything to me...

Now I'm wondering, am I really not supposed to know or something else, but that doesnt really matter, still gonna go for it :?
Author:  great1 [ Wed Apr 01, 2009 3:36 pm ]
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u gotta go 4 it! comfort should be there but u gotta include seduction at da same time! bein around all yo friends when u go out should build da comfort level but sometime in da night isolate her n get a one on one so u can seduce n be more than just friends
Author:  KristallNachte [ Wed Apr 01, 2009 9:46 pm ]
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neither of thsoe options are right

befriending her gets you LJBF

asking her out gets you lumped with the AFC
Author:  Fiery [ Thu Apr 02, 2009 3:34 am ]
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neither of thsoe options are right

befriending her gets you LJBF

asking her out gets you lumped with the AFC
so what do I do then lol?
Author:  kasabi [ Thu Apr 02, 2009 4:14 am ]
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neither of thsoe options are right

befriending her gets you LJBF

asking her out gets you lumped with the AFC
so what do I do then lol?
LOL . . . "asking her out" is fine. "Asking her out" is a broad term right?

So sure . . . you want to avoid, "Eh . . . do you want to go out with me?" - Although, let me tell you. Anything works as long as you JUST WORK IT. In fact, this is a fun opener . . .

Anyhow, you just "ask her out" like:

You: Any plans Friday?

Her: I don't know

You: There's this ______ I hear that is really cool.

Her: ?

You: Wanna check it out?

Pretty simple . . .
Author:  desertEagle [ Sat Apr 04, 2009 5:17 am ]
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theres many things you can do... for sometimes, not being friends with them worked better.... i hooked up with this one girl and she wouldnt stop calling/texting me.. and when i didnt reply back... she was all like " why dont you call anymore" ... girls have this strange bond when sometihng sexual happens ..... but i dont know the situation first hand so ic ant tell you what ot do
Author:  xibuz [ Sat Apr 04, 2009 8:37 am ]
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ABS:

Attract

Build comfort

Seduce

"Befriend" is not listed here. Because women have different ways they think of friends versus mates. You don't wanna end up in the friends zone. You wanna be in the f***buddy zone.

Keep up the sexual tension and go for a close. Don't even think about "befriending" her until you experienced her.
Author:  Hutti [ Sat Apr 04, 2009 10:27 am ]
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Quote:
ABS:

Attract

Build comfort

Seduce

"Befriend" is not listed here. Because women have different ways they think of friends versus mates. You don't wanna end up in the friends zone. You wanna be in the f***buddy zone.

Keep up the sexual tension and go for a close. Don't even think about "befriending" her until you experienced her.
I agree... a lot of girls (especially younger girls <30 .... I think because they are inexperienced) start bonding once something physical happens. Hence I would say go for it now. You can and should still befriend her, but keep the sexual component on her mind all the time, make sure she thinks of you "in that way"
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