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| Author: | HotStuffing135986 [ Tue Mar 31, 2009 4:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Do i have to look the role, if i want to play the part? Is p |
prerequisite...couldn't get in the 'e' I have been trying to talk to girls, but haven't been having any success. one of my guy friends who has women in his life told me i "don't look the part, so you can't play the role" does this mean i have to pay more attention to how i dress hold myself and if i dress poorly it's an automatic disqualification of women liking me? should it be the first thing i figure out before getting back out there? |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Tue Mar 31, 2009 4:46 pm ] |
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No. the first thing you should change before getting out there is that you need to get out there before changing anything. Think too much and you will end up at home alone. BUT... Yes, it is important to care about your way of dressing. It helps. It shows that you care about yourself, you are grooming, you probably care about other things that girls like as well. But, not being in perfect shape is NOT an excuse to not go out sarging. I can go out dressed up as a Japanese tourist with fifteen cameras around my neck and still sarge. If you have dirty hair, a bleeding nose, smelly shoes, go anyway. Make up a backstory in case anyone asks. It is still an experience. You learn so much more from bad experiences than from good ones. So many people plan and credit themselves with a high success ratio, that is because they play it safe. Then when they are challenged with a difficult situation, they have no idea how to handle it. Back to your question. It is more about your inner game. If you feel like a rockstar you can dress like a teacher and still be the rockstar. Do you think rockstars always dress as they do on stage? No! If you wanna be an intellectual then you could dress like one if you wanna feel congruent. Unless you feel congruent anyway. Ezo |
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| Author: | Cinnamon Spice [ Tue Mar 31, 2009 4:48 pm ] |
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If you keep doing what you've always done, you'll keep getting what you've always gotten. Now no one's saying you need to go get Abercrombie and Fitch'd, but it doesn't hurt to work on your appearance a bit. If you've got major bad acne, work on it, drink water, work out, carry salicyclic acid pads to give yourself a wipe down, go out in the sun, swim. if you dress like a slob, work on it. You do need to look at least decent for girls to consider you. Like I said, no one is asking for designer duds, sculpted abs and perfect hair. But if you're a slob, you're not going to get results. Cinnamon |
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| Author: | HotStuffing135986 [ Tue Mar 31, 2009 5:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | but are you the company you keep? |
but what about having a real fresh newbie with you...even if he doesn't get to wing me(I haven't been lasting that long), i feel that he has so many bad tendencies that people judge me for it. i think(maybe the fact that i think it is what makes it bad) is that since survival value is a social perception that being with people of low standards is seen an a infinite number of similar losers i would accept and therefore is a gigantic dlv. |
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| Author: | ZEGlass [ Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:34 pm ] |
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Caveat: Dress stylishly, but let it be YOUR style. You've read The Game? You remember how all of the wannabe pickup artists were going out to buy exactly the same clothes that Style had bought? Don't do that. If your look is usually jeans and a t-shirt, try adding a pair of cowboy boots. If your clothes aren't in great shape, make a statement out of it and show off that they're not in great shape. Jeans that were more hole than denim were fashionable once upon a time. |
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| Author: | expat_of_love [ Wed Apr 01, 2009 12:01 am ] |
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Sorry, but if the book "The Game" was legit they would have moved to Kyiv, Riga, Tallinn, Sofia, or even Warsaw. Then they could have spent less time on clothing and more time enjoying life. Remember, life is for living - It isn't for being uptight and gay acting. |
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| Author: | Impuls [ Wed Apr 01, 2009 12:30 am ] |
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New at this, but I still found I got some Nice interest from women for a simple $20.00 stainless steel (not gold, mind you!) heavy necklace (looks almost like a freaking bike chain) and an old (we're taking back from ther 90's) pastor collar levi's white longsleeve button down linen shirt with green khakis and my $120.00 pair of brown leather bowling-style shoes. Yes, it does pay to look the part. Do YOUR own style, be THE Exception. All I spent was the $120.00 for the decent pair of new shoes (women DO notice this, do not neglect this). It does work. |
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| Author: | KristallNachte [ Wed Apr 01, 2009 3:05 am ] |
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http://kinowear.com has great info for developing personal image |
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| Author: | scott89 [ Wed Apr 01, 2009 3:24 am ] |
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Pretty much exhausted the topic... but anyway it's all about being presentable, not perfect. All you need is to look well groomed, clean (hygiene and clothes) and healthy. When it comes to staying in shape... Yes loads of girls prefer a guy that has a decent level of muscle on him but it's more of a bonus than a necessity. (Yeah it's a sweeping statement)Think big boobs on a girl, that girl is always going to catch your eye but plenty of girls with flatter chests will also take your fancy. |
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