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Author:  psychosylocibin [ Mon Mar 30, 2009 4:46 am ]
Post subject:  Don't like finding your lay has a "reputation"
I F-closed a girl last night, and it seemed pretty effortless. There was not too much communication but a lot of kino and proper physical escalation.

Anyways, I actually sort of have an interest in her since she is an artist and a very good musician.

So I actually felt hurt (serious) when I found out she has a "reputation" from a friend of mine (reputation = easy lay, slept with quite a few guys)

It made me feel like I was just a sex object last night, and any emotional connection that I thought was on her part was probably absent. (serious)

Anyways, what a strange post, just thought I'd share.
Author:  Swoop [ Mon Mar 30, 2009 6:11 am ]
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This is called 'fucking a slut.' Shit happens, dont let it bother you man. Hope you wrapped it up! If you like her, take her out.
Author:  KristallNachte [ Mon Mar 30, 2009 3:36 pm ]
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except sluts don't exist.


she just likes sex, is there really a problem with that?
Author:  Jaybot [ Mon Mar 30, 2009 4:06 pm ]
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Don't sweat it man, all the girls I have really liked have had reputations, don't let what other people think change how you feel. I say go for it
Author:  Alkaline_Solo [ Mon Mar 30, 2009 4:28 pm ]
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i scored a hottie at a party a week or two ago and we've been in contact since. she lives in london so a relationship isn't really on the cards. i intend to full-close next time I see her but in the meantime I see her on facebook getting tagged lapdancing & hanging out with guys I'm fairly sure she's sleeping with. gotta keep reminding myself it's BECAUSE she's such a ball of energy that I want to fuck her in the first place!

that jealousy you're feeling at the idea of her having slept with so many other guys that you're not "special" - that's the inner AFC brewing back up. trust me, i know this guy well. you have to slap the little fucker down because if you let him win you wouldn't be sleeping with that chick in the first place, QED
Author:  scott89 [ Mon Mar 30, 2009 5:15 pm ]
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I wouldn't worry about it, look at it from this angle...

If you were offered sex a lot then the chances are you would take it providing you didn't find anything to turn you off these girls, just because you had all this sex doesn't mean that you're incapable of establishing a deep emotional connection with somebody.

Always keep an open mind, the last girl I SHARED a deep connection with contradicted half of the points on my imaginary list that the ideal "long-term material" girl should have; met in a club, smoker, previous drug issues, *cough* potentially more previous sexual partners *cough* :lol:


---EDIT--- What I meant to add was that if you like her then pursue her as you would with any other girl, providing she didn't regret having sex with you then you already have a foot in the door.
Author:  kasabi [ Tue Mar 31, 2009 7:02 am ]
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All that was said . . . or

You can scour the Earth for a virgin. Date her for 2 years . . . converse with her father about marrying her. After the conversation, you may kiss the girl on the cheek.

Then you get ready for your big wedding day. Alright! You're ready to go! Now you can have sex! However, by now your girl will probably decide that you're a bore and instead of marrying you, will run off with the guy who was fucking her in the back of his van for the last 3 years.
Author:  Call Me Dre [ Tue Mar 31, 2009 8:59 am ]
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except sluts don't exist.


she just likes sex, is there really a problem with that?
i disagree, women can have kids, aka the lock, you are the key, if the lock goes around fucking everything that moves shes a whole, or a nymph, what ever you want to call it,

people say women don't have the power, then why are we trying to game them? If we go to a bar and just talk to guys/ stand there, maybe once or twice in a week a girl will come up to you, and thats if you look interesting/have good looks, girls get approached a billion gagilion times a day, point made, girls can be sluts, because the have the power to reject yet, they choose to fuck anything, aka take anything they can get,

LOL which reminds me of this one time my coworker fucked a girl, and was bragging about it for the longest time, but then we found out she was a skank, and fucked the nastiest dude, it was legendary, to this day i still make fun of him
Author:  KristallNachte [ Tue Mar 31, 2009 3:15 pm ]
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well having sex with ANYONE is one thing, having a lot of sex with decent/above average guys is different lol


but still, girls like sex, nothing wrong with that
Author:  Call Me Dre [ Tue Mar 31, 2009 5:24 pm ]
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well having sex with ANYONE is one thing, having a lot of sex with decent/above average guys is different lol


but still, girls like sex, nothing wrong with that
agreeeed
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