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| Author: | psychosylocibin [ Fri Mar 27, 2009 9:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I need a PUA opinion on this situation, when to call? |
Alright, I have been a lurker on these boards for a while but finally have a situation that I need a perspective on. I do not actively use "PUA Tactics" get girls normally. I have been "having fun and being single" as guys call it for the past year or two, but now I want a change of pace and actually meet a quality girl and take it slower than a one night stand or FB. Basically, my situation is that I met a girl about 3 weeks ago, and her friend wanted to set her up with me (she mentinod that she thought I was attractive and was cool etc etc). So she came to one of my concerts I was playing at (with her friends). All night I was busy talking to friends and had random people coming up to me telling me I did a good job. She clearly wanted to get to know me better but I was too busy running around talking to people and people kept interrupting our conversation by congradulating me. Anyways things settled down and we made small talk for about 20 mins. I told her I was busy this friday and saturday (more shows) and that I would call her later in the weekend to set something up the next week. Anyways, my gut instinct was too wait, but then she texted me later that night saying "it was really getting to know you, hope to hear from you soon", which made me wonder if I shoudl call sooner. So there is obvious interest on her part. Knowing there is interest, should I wait all the way until Sunday/Monday (4 days after meet-up) to call or call on Saturday and set something up? Keep in mind I am veering away from "FB's" and random lays to actual dating. PS - she also seems pretty conservative and not "wild". (not someone that would have a one night stand) |
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| Author: | Cocaine Bell [ Sat Mar 28, 2009 1:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I need a PUA opinion on this situation, when to call? |
Quote: Alright, I have been a lurker on these boards for a while but finally have a situation that I need a perspective on.
I do not actively use "PUA Tactics" get girls normally. I have been "having fun and being single" as guys call it for the past year or two, but now I want a change of pace and actually meet a quality girl and take it slower than a one night stand or FB. Basically, my situation is that I met a girl about 3 weeks ago, and her friend wanted to set her up with me (she mentinod that she thought I was attractive and was cool etc etc). So she came to one of my concerts I was playing at (with her friends). All night I was busy talking to friends and had random people coming up to me telling me I did a good job. She clearly wanted to get to know me better but I was too busy running around talking to people and people kept interrupting our conversation by congradulating me. Anyways things settled down and we made small talk for about 20 mins. I told her I was busy this friday and saturday (more shows) and that I would call her later in the weekend to set something up the next week. Anyways, my gut instinct was too wait, but then she texted me later that night saying "it was really getting to know you, hope to hear from you soon", which made me wonder if I shoudl call sooner. So there is obvious interest on her part. Knowing there is interest, should I wait all the way until Sunday/Monday (4 days after meet-up) to call or call on Saturday and set something up? Keep in mind I am veering away from "FB's" and random lays to actual dating. PS - she also seems pretty conservative and not "wild". (not someone that would have a one night stand) The 4 Types of Pickup according to Mystery: -------------------------------------------------------- Cryogenic Approach: also know as Cryo Game Meeting a girl at a bookstore, coffeeshop, mall Cold Approach: This is what we train to get good at. Meetting a group of girls in a social gathering (nightclub, bar, concert) Warm Approach: A warn introduction to women by a third party (house parties, BBQs, summer picnics) Hot Approach: Also known as Celeb Game, using last months successes for this months successes -------------------------------------------------------- I stated that to say this: you were INTRODUCED to this girl by a female friend. You are in like flynn. You already recieved a warm reception (another woman already did all the social proofin' for you). Also who came up with these 3 hour, 4 hour rules?!? Bogus man, I call girls I'm interested in the very next day. Do yourself a favor man... call her right now. You're trying to out think the obvious: The girl's into you, you're into her, set up a Day 2. Game On. |
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