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Your biggest problem is you're trying to build rapport. In social gatherings (nightclubs, bars, house parties), ppl attend to escape conversation and indulge in fun. You have to learn how to break rapport.
I absolutely love club game. When you see a girl dancing by herself, stop trying to get her to open up. She doesn't know you & your're slowing down her fun. Break Rapport. Approach her already dancing, and bump hips with her. Do this in the most playful way, smile roll off and bump hips with her again (I OPEN every girl on the dance floor with this... so you can't tell me this doesn't work because I've field tested it countless times before).
Shoot "air" arrows at the girl like you're striking her with love, and you're cupid. I mean have fun with it... you don't necessarily even need to know how to dance to open girls in parties, just don't try and "Open" them so to say (opening as far as we know in pickup).
Say something slick like "Hey you keep bumping into me like that I'ma think you;'re trying to make me spill my drink." (Smiling As you Say this)) you see, thisdoes work. Because you're not seeking validation. You are giving value. You don't need anything, you're already assuming she's into you, and its obvious that she'd be flirting with you (not the other way around).
You need to learn how to social proof yourself. Practice going around high fiving people, pump yourself up before you approach you're targets. Trust me.
Game On. 
p.s.
This is an examply of dance floor game:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sy8u1lsLBcE[/youtube]
And Afc Adam CAN'T DANCE (he said this himself, he just flows with the girl's body)
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